The quick story is that I have a 6 year old bengal cat. When I moved into my place years ago I was in a relationship and we had 4 cats total together. The relationship didn't work, she left and took her one cat. I had to say bye to one cat in 2020 and one in 2021 (they lived to be 17). I was going to keep my current guy as an only cat but now I'm starting to wonder if I should get him a buddy since he was around all these other cats the first years of his life. It's been almost 5 months since he has had someone.
He does OK now. For example, he is not destructive to the house. But when I watch him on camera during the day, he does look around and seem bored.... at times. He doesn't cry during the day that I can hear on camera either. I leave toys around and even leave some music going, sometimes an internet channel with voices playing while I'm gone. But maybe I'm just fooling myself and hurting him by not having another kitty to engage with... I don't know.
My hesitation is that I work in an office all week, so I'm gone 9 hours a day. Nobody will be here to monitor the introduction period, so I guess the only choice is locking the new cat in a bedroom all day and night. So they'd only get interaction 4 hours in the evening during the week. At least until they become friends. That is my biggest hurdle. Is that bad? Should I let it stop this idea? I also have the dread of what if it backfires and they never like each other? I'd hate to mentally damage either cat if it doesn't work out. Like I said, my biggest hold back is that I'm at work all day.... I'd be very appreciative of any opinions anyone could share
(Oh, and I'm talking about getting a cat in the same age range, so 4 to 6 years old. Not a kitten. I don't want to start that sort of age gap.)
He does OK now. For example, he is not destructive to the house. But when I watch him on camera during the day, he does look around and seem bored.... at times. He doesn't cry during the day that I can hear on camera either. I leave toys around and even leave some music going, sometimes an internet channel with voices playing while I'm gone. But maybe I'm just fooling myself and hurting him by not having another kitty to engage with... I don't know.
My hesitation is that I work in an office all week, so I'm gone 9 hours a day. Nobody will be here to monitor the introduction period, so I guess the only choice is locking the new cat in a bedroom all day and night. So they'd only get interaction 4 hours in the evening during the week. At least until they become friends. That is my biggest hurdle. Is that bad? Should I let it stop this idea? I also have the dread of what if it backfires and they never like each other? I'd hate to mentally damage either cat if it doesn't work out. Like I said, my biggest hold back is that I'm at work all day.... I'd be very appreciative of any opinions anyone could share
(Oh, and I'm talking about getting a cat in the same age range, so 4 to 6 years old. Not a kitten. I don't want to start that sort of age gap.)