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Just venting.
I've neglected the fish tank somewhat with all the commotion with Simon and so I just filled it up because it was down about 5 inches. I added the water as usual, then fed them. The Pictus Catfish, Mr. Speckles who was Simon's playmate and just turned 8, got spooked, swam twice up into the canopy and hit it really hard he almost jumped out of the tank. He was so healthy. I think one of the sharks spooked him while eating now he's stunned...
I then tried to remove him to rehab him in a small container but his gill got caught in the net, so I had to take a scissor and cut the net, finally got it off with tweezers and let him rest in the small container for a while and just put him back in the tank.
Not sure if he'll make it. Although he's swimming better.
He's so gorgeous. I can't believe this happened. What a freak thing.
When Simon died and I put him on his cat condo for Chestnut to look at Mr. Speckles was trying to get Simon's tail as he always used to.
I suppose time will tell. Just seems like another piece of Simon will be gone, they enjoyed endless playtime torturing each other through the glass. LOL.
I can't believe my other shark is going to be 25 on August 31st. and everyone else is dying. This sucks.
Please don't stop singing You Are My Sunshine to your kitties! Sebastian and I certainly weren't meant to "claim it" in any way.
@GoHolistic - I was so moved by your tribute to Sebastian. I used to sing You are my Sunshine but after seeing your tribute, out of respect for Sebastian and the fact it didn't feel right, we went back to Sunshine on my Shoulders. Thank you for your kind words.
I know so little about aquarium fish, other than how beautiful they are. I didn't realize a shark could share a tank with any other fish, so I find that amazing. An 8-year-old catfish? What is their normal life span? And a 25-year-old shark? Of course you are attached to them. I really hope Mr. Speckles bounces back, it was adorable hearing about he and Simon playing all those years. So sweet that the other shark is protecting him, and fascinating. We know so little about all creatures, really, about how they communicate, feel, interact and so on, and I love hearing about them. Hugs, etc.....
It totally blows...
Thanks @nerdgirl5
Upon further inspection, it looks like when feeding one of the sharks bit down on him. If he makes it through the night he'll be good.
He's breathing better and the shark named Pretty Boy, is guiding him and protecting him from the others. I have the tank next to the tv and find myself watching the fish more than the tv. It's one thing when they don't make the crucial 3 month mark but after years, you get attached. My doctor says watching the fish is why I have low heart rate and I'm always calm. LOL
Oh well, I can't even think about this. Fingers crossed...
Well, Simon will have his friend back. Lamont and Eddie would get a kick out of Mr. Speckles. LOL
Thanks @MaggieMay, The sharks are actually iridescent sharks, in the cat fish family. My friend bred them by accident, which is rare. She gave me 4, 3 of the original died and I got the other two from a pet store in NYC. Mr. Speckles is 8 and I got him from a pet store in Queens, it was such a freak accident yesterday. I made the mistake after panicking and grabbed the non safety net and he got caught. But I don't think that added to his injuries.
I know so little about aquarium fish, other than how beautiful they are. I didn't realize a shark could share a tank with any other fish, so I find that amazing. An 8-year-old catfish? What is their normal life span? And a 25-year-old shark? Of course you are attached to them. I really hope Mr. Speckles bounces back, it was adorable hearing about he and Simon playing all those years. So sweet that the other shark is protecting him, and fascinating. We know so little about all creatures, really, about how they communicate, feel, interact and so on, and I love hearing about them. Hugs, etc.....
They sound fabulous, and of course you would treat them as if they are in the wild. If I've ever known anyone to be an animal empath, it's you. You mentioned your low heart rate and calm demeanor and I know that comes across to all animals you interact with. Yes, everything is turned upside down right now, and panic is going to spring up. I would bet that you are the type of person who rarely, if ever, panics. Just try to take some deep breaths when you feel yourself staring to panic, or something weird that really helps me - put your face in front of an airconditioner or fan. That air blowing onto the face works wonders. I don't panic often, but when I do, I race to the nearest fan. I can just picture Simon Hot Stuff helping with the fish, lol. SO darned cute! Fingers crossed for Mr. Speckles.
Thanks @MaggieMay, The sharks are actually iridescent sharks, in the cat fish family. My friend bred them by accident, which is rare. She gave me 4, 3 of the original died and I got the other two from a pet store in NYC. Mr. Speckles is 8 and I got him from a pet store in Queens, it was such a freak accident yesterday. I made the mistake after panicking and grabbed the non safety net and he got caught. But I don't think that added to his injuries.
He's hanging on. I think when one of the sharks bit him caused internal damage. I'm letting mother nature take care of this one. So far he's breathing pretty normal, and will hopefully gain his strength. I think too he banged his head hard twice after being bitten and that caused him further damage. It's unfortunate but I got my feelings still whirling from Simon.
I think they lived so long is because I treat them as if they are in the wild. The tank itself isn't very pretty or set up for my eyes, it's set up for them, they are bottom feeders and need room. I feed them lettuce, peas and fish flakes, brine shrimp and live blood worms. And I don't over feed at all, only a couple of times a week, that's the biggest mistake people make. I also move stuff around in the tank and keep it exciting for them, they like to explore. AND it used to be Simon's favorite thing to help out with. LOL
Fingers crossed... Thanks for asking.
I'll have to find pictures of Simon with the fish, before he was ill. We had Clown Loaches, 4 of them named after the Bundy's from Married with Children. They live up to their name. They would sit on the sharks fins to catch a ride, and most of all, mess with Simon. I can't tell you how many times Simon jumped up and banged his nose on the glass trying to catch them. LOL So funny, we'd laugh so hard. And then Simon would run away embarrassed then come back and do it all over again. LOL I think he liked them because of their bright color.
They sound fabulous, and of course you would treat them as if they are in the wild. If I've ever known anyone to be an animal empath, it's you. You mentioned your low heart rate and calm demeanor and I know that comes across to all animals you interact with. Yes, everything is turned upside down right now, and panic is going to spring up. I would bet that you are the type of person who rarely, if ever, panics. Just try to take some deep breaths when you feel yourself staring to panic, or something weird that really helps me - put your face in front of an airconditioner or fan. That air blowing onto the face works wonders. I don't panic often, but when I do, I race to the nearest fan. I can just picture Simon Hot Stuff helping with the fish, lol. SO darned cute! Fingers crossed for Mr. Speckles.
@GoHolistic No not thinking at all that you claimed it. LOL I just was being superstitious and respectful. After I wrote about singing it to Simon in Simon's Diary in the health section, I came across your tribute for Sebastian and it gave me chills.
Please don't stop singing You Are My Sunshine to your kitties! Sebastian and I certainly weren't meant to "claim it" in any way.Every once in a while, I'll work up the courage to sing some of Sebastian's songs (he had his own) in memory of him, but I often break down in tears as a result.
I totally get what you mean by having a "shadow" always under your feet. Simon sounds a lot like Sebastian in that respect.
LOL. That is funny about Chestnut's song. I can totally hear it.
@GoHolistic No not thinking at all that you claimed it. LOL I just was being superstitious and respectful. After I wrote about singing it to Simon in Simon's Diary in the health section, I came across your tribute for Sebastian and it gave me chills.
Chestnut's song of course is The Christmas Song - Chestnuts Roasting Over an Open Fire - And I like to think it's Christmas everyday, so that one works out well. LOL
May I ask what program you used to make that tribute? I made a nice Gif for Simon with music, but youtube won't support it. I'm too brain dead to deal with it at the moment. LOL
I really love the tissue paper video of Sebastian, it really makes me think of Simon. I love it. Simon and Sebastian do sound like they liked the same games. LOL Now they're scooching and swatting clouds in the sky.
Keep writing those songs. Check out Sad Piano Songs on Youtube...
I think we'd love to see a picture of your sharks! @2Cats4everLoved ....and wishing your poorly one better too..
Thanks @MaggieMay, The sharks are actually iridescent sharks, in the cat fish family. My friend bred them by accident, which is rare. She gave me 4, 3 of the original died and I got the other two from a pet store in NYC. Mr. Speckles is 8 and I got him from a pet store in Queens, it was such a freak accident yesterday. I made the mistake after panicking and grabbed the non safety net and he got caught. But I don't think that added to his injuries.
He's hanging on. I think when one of the sharks bit him caused internal damage. I'm letting mother nature take care of this one. So far he's breathing pretty normal, and will hopefully gain his strength. I think too he banged his head hard twice after being bitten and that caused him further damage. It's unfortunate but I got my feelings still whirling from Simon.
I think they lived so long is because I treat them as if they are in the wild. The tank itself isn't very pretty or set up for my eyes, it's set up for them, they are bottom feeders and need room. I feed them lettuce, peas and fish flakes, brine shrimp and live blood worms. And I don't over feed at all, only a couple of times a week, that's the biggest mistake people make. I also move stuff around in the tank and keep it exciting for them, they like to explore. AND it used to be Simon's favorite thing to help out with. LOL
Fingers crossed... Thanks for asking.
I had to laugh at you naming the fish after the Bundy's. I loved Married With Children, so those names are hilarious to me. I can just see Peg and Al hitching a ride on a shark's fin. What a treat for Simon to have all of those fish living with him. I bet he was endlessly fascinated by them and to think they actually played together is amazing. I really look forward to seeing pics of Simon and the fish, that funny funny boy!
I'll have to find pictures of Simon with the fish, before he was ill. We had Clown Loaches, 4 of them named after the Bundy's from Married with Children. They live up to their name. They would sit on the sharks fins to catch a ride, and most of all, mess with Simon. I can't tell you how many times Simon jumped up and banged his nose on the glass trying to catch them. LOL So funny, we'd laugh so hard. And then Simon would run away embarrassed then come back and do it all over again. LOL I think he liked them because of their bright color.
Yes, you're right, our friends tease us and say we are the most laid back couple in NYC, if we were any more mellow we'd be 6ft under. LOL In business I'm tough but not at home, who needs the extra added aggravation. I panicked because the poor fish got tangled in the net. I still can't believe I grabbed the wrong one. But a hot flash kicked in and fried my brain momentarily. And I too am accustomed to sticking my body in front of the AC. LOL getting old sucks to say the least.
By the way, how is sweet girl Lexi doing.... I hope things are working out well for her.
Always a pleasure chatting with you.