I have had my 5 year old cat Izzie since she was a kitten and I love her dearly, but she hates every living being other than me. By “hateâ€, I mean she is extremely and viciously aggressive. The bizarre part is that she is completely different when she is with me. With me, Izzie is a huge love bug; she is very affectionate and cuddly. With other people/animals, it is like she is a completely different cat. Her behavior is almost feral and itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s really quite scary.
Some background information: the first time I witnessed Izzieâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s aggression was with my small dog, whom she attacked completely unprovoked. Out of nowhere, Izzie pounced on my dogâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s back and started digging her nails into her and biting her to the point where she drew blood. This continued until I grabbed her off the dog by the neck and separated them.
After this incident, I took Izzie to the vet to make sure that there wasnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t anything physically wrong with her (there wasnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t), and we tried gradually reintroducing them. Shortly afterwards, Izzie attacked the dog again. I separated them for a longer period and started researching cat aggression. I started using Bachâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s Rescue Remedy and Feliway on Izzie and also used Soft Paws on her nails to limit the damage that she could do through scratching.
Fast forward a month or so, and I reintroduced them again and witnessed yet another attack. That was over two years ago, and since then Izzie has been secluded to my bedroom, because I just donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t trust her anymore with the dog. I feel badly that Izzie is living in such a small space, especially since I sometimes spend weekends away from home and she is by herself. She is always left plenty of food and water and toys, but I know she is lonely.
Earlier this year, I decided that I would try to find a new home for Izzie without any other pets, where she could get the attention that she deserves and not have to be locked up all the time. My uncle, who lives in an apartment by himself with no other pets agreed to take her in, and I thought it would be a great home for her. I brought Izzie to his house and stayed there for about an hour to help her get settled in, and she seemed ok. She was curious and exploring but also being affectionate (rubbing against us, purring, etc.). Immediately after I left, my uncle told me that Izzie started lunging toward his face, scratching, biting, and hissing/growling. If he tried to ignore her or move to another part of the room, she would just follow him and continue trying to attack. He was a bit freaked out but thought she was just upset that I left, so endured her abuse for an hour before he called me to pick Izzie back up. As soon as I walked back into the apartment, she was back to the calm, normal cat.
I brought Izzie back home with me and have been feeling very discouraged every since. The vet prescribed Prozac (the second prescription antidepressant/anti-anxiety medication that we have tried), which helped with her peeing outside the litterbox (a completely separate issue which I would be able to tolerate on itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s own if she didnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t have the aggression issues). But it has not helped with the aggression. Izzie still attacks anyone who she comes into contact with when I am not there. My boyfriend and father (both grown men) are terrified of her and will not enter the room without me there. My mother and sister (who were living with me up until 2 months ago) refuse to enter the room even if Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m with them. It truly is like jekyl and hyde and the only explanation I can think of is that Izzie has mental issues that cause her to turn into a demon cat.
In 2 weeks I will be moving into a new, small apartment, where I will no longer be able to separate Izzie and my dog. I have no idea what Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m going to do with Izzie. I have tried calling the Humane Society, but they donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t return my calls. Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m afraid that if a shelter were to take Izzie in, they would put her to sleep once they see how aggressive she is. She is not adoptable under these circumstances. My dad suggested that I let her loose at a farm and she will “fend for herselfâ€, which seems cruel to me because I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t know if she would find food and I would hate to have a coyote or other animal hurt her. So as much as I hate to even think about it, I am considering putting Izzie to sleep before I move. I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t know what other option I have. I have truly tried every solution I can possibly think of and nothing has worked. My thought is that if Izzie is likely to be put down in a shelter, where she would be very stressed and afraid, she would be better off being put to sleep with me holding her and knowing that she is safe and loved.
As we speak, Izzie is snuggled up next to me purring and I feel like the worst pet mom ever for thinking about killing her, but I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t know what else to do. Please advise if you think this would be the best thing to do, or what other suggestions anyone might have.
Thank you very much!
Izzieâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s mom
Some background information: the first time I witnessed Izzieâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s aggression was with my small dog, whom she attacked completely unprovoked. Out of nowhere, Izzie pounced on my dogâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s back and started digging her nails into her and biting her to the point where she drew blood. This continued until I grabbed her off the dog by the neck and separated them.
After this incident, I took Izzie to the vet to make sure that there wasnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t anything physically wrong with her (there wasnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t), and we tried gradually reintroducing them. Shortly afterwards, Izzie attacked the dog again. I separated them for a longer period and started researching cat aggression. I started using Bachâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s Rescue Remedy and Feliway on Izzie and also used Soft Paws on her nails to limit the damage that she could do through scratching.
Fast forward a month or so, and I reintroduced them again and witnessed yet another attack. That was over two years ago, and since then Izzie has been secluded to my bedroom, because I just donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t trust her anymore with the dog. I feel badly that Izzie is living in such a small space, especially since I sometimes spend weekends away from home and she is by herself. She is always left plenty of food and water and toys, but I know she is lonely.
Earlier this year, I decided that I would try to find a new home for Izzie without any other pets, where she could get the attention that she deserves and not have to be locked up all the time. My uncle, who lives in an apartment by himself with no other pets agreed to take her in, and I thought it would be a great home for her. I brought Izzie to his house and stayed there for about an hour to help her get settled in, and she seemed ok. She was curious and exploring but also being affectionate (rubbing against us, purring, etc.). Immediately after I left, my uncle told me that Izzie started lunging toward his face, scratching, biting, and hissing/growling. If he tried to ignore her or move to another part of the room, she would just follow him and continue trying to attack. He was a bit freaked out but thought she was just upset that I left, so endured her abuse for an hour before he called me to pick Izzie back up. As soon as I walked back into the apartment, she was back to the calm, normal cat.
I brought Izzie back home with me and have been feeling very discouraged every since. The vet prescribed Prozac (the second prescription antidepressant/anti-anxiety medication that we have tried), which helped with her peeing outside the litterbox (a completely separate issue which I would be able to tolerate on itâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s own if she didnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t have the aggression issues). But it has not helped with the aggression. Izzie still attacks anyone who she comes into contact with when I am not there. My boyfriend and father (both grown men) are terrified of her and will not enter the room without me there. My mother and sister (who were living with me up until 2 months ago) refuse to enter the room even if Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m with them. It truly is like jekyl and hyde and the only explanation I can think of is that Izzie has mental issues that cause her to turn into a demon cat.
In 2 weeks I will be moving into a new, small apartment, where I will no longer be able to separate Izzie and my dog. I have no idea what Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m going to do with Izzie. I have tried calling the Humane Society, but they donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t return my calls. Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m afraid that if a shelter were to take Izzie in, they would put her to sleep once they see how aggressive she is. She is not adoptable under these circumstances. My dad suggested that I let her loose at a farm and she will “fend for herselfâ€, which seems cruel to me because I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t know if she would find food and I would hate to have a coyote or other animal hurt her. So as much as I hate to even think about it, I am considering putting Izzie to sleep before I move. I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t know what other option I have. I have truly tried every solution I can possibly think of and nothing has worked. My thought is that if Izzie is likely to be put down in a shelter, where she would be very stressed and afraid, she would be better off being put to sleep with me holding her and knowing that she is safe and loved.
As we speak, Izzie is snuggled up next to me purring and I feel like the worst pet mom ever for thinking about killing her, but I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t know what else to do. Please advise if you think this would be the best thing to do, or what other suggestions anyone might have.
Thank you very much!
Izzieâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s mom