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Hi there,
The cat on the right is named Aki, she's 9 years old (female). The one on the left was called Natsu, he was 14.5 years old (male) when I had to say goodbye to him last April due to a tumor that was spotted too little too late. Since then, it's just been me and Aki and she's been constantly wanting my attention for months now, especially since I'm working from home because of the pandemic. She has been with Natsu ever since she was 5 months old, so my theory is that she either misses having another cat with her or because Natsu was such a cuddly cat and demanded so much of my attention, that she's saying "it's my turn now".
I love Aki, but she's not the type of cat that cuddles a lot, she likes to be pet and only stays on me for about a minute or so. In short, she's a normal adult cat. I have been fighting anxiety for years without needing medication, but this year, with with the pandemic, the lost of Natsu and a few other things, I finally snapped this and now I'm on meds
I would love to get a new cuddly kitten to help me out and to give Aki someone else to play with, but I the only thing stopping me is the fear that she'll feel isolated if I start paying attention to a kitten. She's 9 years old, 3 years older than when Natsu first met her, so I'm wondering is she's too old for this and if there's a risk of this traumatizing her.
While I understand that everyone here may have an opinion on the subject, I would prefer having responses from either professionals or people that had a similar experience in the past.
Thank you