Valerian
Clip the back ones too in case of Bunny-kicks. Bunny kicks will look rough. But the cat being kicked will back off it it's too rough; they're usually the ones on top at that point anyway!
- play with each cat first and wear them out a bit
- feed each cat (you said separately was better for your home so keep it separate).
- then, open the gates and see what happens. Keep your cat music on, keep your treats and toys nearby for distraction but expect that they will probably play.
- if you have them, set out lots of tunnels, boxes, tents and things for them to go around, in and through for play. This helps keep them a little calmer in terms of anxiety.
As per scent swaps, it's up to you.
Be prepared for full on wrestling including chomping, kicking, swatting, rolling, all of it. There may be a minor squeek or hiss and that's okay. Remind yourself that it's just like when people rough house. There might be the occasional ow! But most times people are still laughing and enjoying themselves.
Magnus and Calcifer's first time in person was just in Calcifer's room. Cal was fine. Magnus was a bit nervous and watched Cal play with us. He watched Cal play for about 15 minutes and then he decided to leave. We let him out.
Next introduction we did a gate again. Nobel stayed on one side, (he wasn't ready for in-person) and we let Magnus jump the gate. That's the first videos I sent you.
Where we put the base camp is my wife's office. And then for intros, we put the gate so that the new cat has access to our room, the bathroom and their base camp. It also serves as a scent swap in our bedroom and gives new cat extra space to run some energy out. The resident cats stay on the stairs and landing.
So perhaps let her in to his room first would be best to avoid her getting possessive.
- play with each cat first and wear them out a bit
- feed each cat (you said separately was better for your home so keep it separate).
- then, open the gates and see what happens. Keep your cat music on, keep your treats and toys nearby for distraction but expect that they will probably play.
- if you have them, set out lots of tunnels, boxes, tents and things for them to go around, in and through for play. This helps keep them a little calmer in terms of anxiety.
As per scent swaps, it's up to you.
Be prepared for full on wrestling including chomping, kicking, swatting, rolling, all of it. There may be a minor squeek or hiss and that's okay. Remind yourself that it's just like when people rough house. There might be the occasional ow! But most times people are still laughing and enjoying themselves.
Magnus and Calcifer's first time in person was just in Calcifer's room. Cal was fine. Magnus was a bit nervous and watched Cal play with us. He watched Cal play for about 15 minutes and then he decided to leave. We let him out.
Next introduction we did a gate again. Nobel stayed on one side, (he wasn't ready for in-person) and we let Magnus jump the gate. That's the first videos I sent you.
Where we put the base camp is my wife's office. And then for intros, we put the gate so that the new cat has access to our room, the bathroom and their base camp. It also serves as a scent swap in our bedroom and gives new cat extra space to run some energy out. The resident cats stay on the stairs and landing.
So perhaps let her in to his room first would be best to avoid her getting possessive.
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