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I adopted a 8mo female from a shelter about 2 months ago (Baby) (she is 10 m now). And she's adapted nicely. She's a bit of a firecracker and very vocal.
I've adopted a second cat yesterday - he is 8 mo (Zack).
They are both fixed.
He has been staying in 1 room (a bedroom) where he has his food, water, toys, litterbox and scratching post.
He seems really calm and chikled out. He's not very vocal.
I've brushed Zack yesterday and since he was shedding heavily I gathered a handful of his fur.
I'm not sure if I made a mistake but I gave that handful of fur to Baby to snif. She sniffed the fur and rhen hissed, after thqt she puffed up soo bad and got in an aggressive pose (arched back, tilted head, ears back, eyes wide open...)...it took a while for her to calm down.
I thought by giving her his fur to sniff and same time give her treats, she would associate him with positive things..
Then when we switched rooms she walked in his room slowly, tail down, hissing here and there..
Is this normal or is this an indicator she will never accept him?..
He hasn't had any issues whatsoever for now (it's morning the next days now), he was happy to explore the rest of the apartment and seems happy even when in his base camp.
The only problem is Baby, she doesnt like Zack's scent at all. I've tried feeding them on each sode of the door, and she eats but I think she didn't even suspect there was a cat on the other side.
Now when I give her his fur to smell, she still hisses, but doesn't puff up or not as mich (she is still puffy and walks slowly and low while exploring his base camp)...
Any and all advice please!
Update
Maybe I shouldn't have given the RC a handful of NC's fur to sniff? Maybe she got freaked out by the ball of fur?
So I took 2 fresh socks and rubed each of the kitties around the snout area, back and tailbone, paws, and exchanged the socks + I exchanged their doughnut sleeping beds.
And this time there was no hissing from the RC, just a lot of sniffing. She even went into the doughnut and layed there for 5 minutes (no puffiness, or hissing, just relaxed kittie).
Same with the NC, he rubbed agains the sock and also got into the doughnut to lay there
I'm gonna take this as a good sign and keep at it in slow pace. I'm also going to hide away all the furrbals from the NC so the RC doesn't get overwhelmed.
I'll be posting updates if anyone is watching
I've adopted a second cat yesterday - he is 8 mo (Zack).
They are both fixed.
He has been staying in 1 room (a bedroom) where he has his food, water, toys, litterbox and scratching post.
He seems really calm and chikled out. He's not very vocal.
I've brushed Zack yesterday and since he was shedding heavily I gathered a handful of his fur.
I'm not sure if I made a mistake but I gave that handful of fur to Baby to snif. She sniffed the fur and rhen hissed, after thqt she puffed up soo bad and got in an aggressive pose (arched back, tilted head, ears back, eyes wide open...)...it took a while for her to calm down.
I thought by giving her his fur to sniff and same time give her treats, she would associate him with positive things..
Then when we switched rooms she walked in his room slowly, tail down, hissing here and there..
Is this normal or is this an indicator she will never accept him?..
He hasn't had any issues whatsoever for now (it's morning the next days now), he was happy to explore the rest of the apartment and seems happy even when in his base camp.
The only problem is Baby, she doesnt like Zack's scent at all. I've tried feeding them on each sode of the door, and she eats but I think she didn't even suspect there was a cat on the other side.
Now when I give her his fur to smell, she still hisses, but doesn't puff up or not as mich (she is still puffy and walks slowly and low while exploring his base camp)...
Any and all advice please!
P.s. The shelter gave us 1 week for trial before adopting or returning him. With the option to prolonge up to 2 weeks max...I adopted a 8mo female from a shelter about 2 months ago (Baby) (she is 10 m now). And she's adapted nicely. She's a bit of a firecracker and very vocal.
I've adopted a second cat yesterday - he is 8 mo (Zack).
They are both fixed.
He has been staying in 1 room (a bedroom) where he has his food, water, toys, litterbox and scratching post.
He seems really calm and chikled out. He's not very vocal.
I've brushed Zack yesterday and since he was shedding heavily I gathered a handful of his fur.
I'm not sure if I made a mistake but I gave that handful of fur to Baby to snif. She sniffed the fur and rhen hissed, after thqt she puffed up soo bad and got in an aggressive pose (arched back, tilted head, ears back, eyes wide open...)...it took a while for her to calm down.
I thought by giving her his fur to sniff and same time give her treats, she would associate him with positive things..
Then when we switched rooms she walked in his room slowly, tail down, hissing here and there..
Is this normal or is this an indicator she will never accept him?..
He hasn't had any issues whatsoever for now (it's morning the next days now), he was happy to explore the rest of the apartment and seems happy even when in his base camp.
The only problem is Baby, she doesnt like Zack's scent at all. I've tried feeding them on each sode of the door, and she eats but I think she didn't even suspect there was a cat on the other side.
Now when I give her his fur to smell, she still hisses, but doesn't puff up or not as mich (she is still puffy and walks slowly and low while exploring his base camp)...
Any and all advice please!
Update
Maybe I shouldn't have given the RC a handful of NC's fur to sniff? Maybe she got freaked out by the ball of fur?
So I took 2 fresh socks and rubed each of the kitties around the snout area, back and tailbone, paws, and exchanged the socks + I exchanged their doughnut sleeping beds.
And this time there was no hissing from the RC, just a lot of sniffing. She even went into the doughnut and layed there for 5 minutes (no puffiness, or hissing, just relaxed kittie).
Same with the NC, he rubbed agains the sock and also got into the doughnut to lay there
I'm gonna take this as a good sign and keep at it in slow pace. I'm also going to hide away all the furrbals from the NC so the RC doesn't get overwhelmed.
I'll be posting updates if anyone is watching