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Discussion in 'The Cat Lounge' started by kookycats, Dec 14, 2018.

  1. doomsdave

    doomsdave TCS Member Top Cat

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    We care about that!
     
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  2. kookycats

    kookycats Thread Starter TCS Member Top Cat

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    Hospice called at 12:13 am Sunday morning. He passed away in his sleep right before midnight. He is at peace now. just so hard to believe. We were married for 53 years. I had told him earlier that his sister Maxine was holding his hand and waiting for him. I think that made him finally let himself go.
     
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  3. Norachan

    Norachan Moderator Staff Member Moderator

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    @kookycats I have no words. Just hugs for you.

    :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:
     
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  4. mama africa

    mama africa TCS Member Top Cat

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    I am speechless... :alright: I hope you feel surrounded by much love.
     
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  5. Maria Bayote

    Maria Bayote Mama of 4 Cats, 3 Dogs , 2 Budgies & 2 Humans Top Cat

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    I am so sorry. Be strong. Our hugs and prayers.
     
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  6. JamesCalifornia

    JamesCalifornia TCS Member Top Cat

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    Peaceful thoughts for you ...
    :vibes::rbheart::cloud9:
     
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  7. di and bob

    di and bob TCS Member Top Cat

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    Lana, my heart cries for your pain, I pray you know you will be in many thoughts and prayers today. You shared so much love and life with Paul, I hope in time your heart will find the peace it deserves. I pray his soul will rest in peace, knowing he was so loved, I know he will be forever held in your heart. Your memories will in time bring you comfort instead of pain, "Death cannot take that which never dies" and the love you shared will live on through you for eternity. May the good Lord bless and keep him, until you meet again.......
     
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  8. Winchester

    Winchester TCS Member Veteran

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    Lana, I am so very sorry about Paul.
     
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  9. rubysmama

    rubysmama Forum Helper Staff Member Forum Helper

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    I'm so sorry. :alright: :hearthrob: :hugs:
     
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  10. jcat

    jcat Mo(w)gli's can opener Staff Member Moderator

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    Lana, I'm so very sorry you've lost Paul, and my thoughts are with you. :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:
     
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  11. LisaT.

    LisaT. TCS Member Adult Cat

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    Hi Lana. You and Paul will be in my prayers. Take care.
     

  12. doomsdave

    doomsdave TCS Member Top Cat

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    Lana, so sorry to hear.

    Take care of you now. If others are hurting from the loss of your husband, help them, too. It will help you as well.

    Let us know how your journey goes, good and bad.
     

  13. betsygee

    betsygee Don't believe everything you think. Staff Member Moderator

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    Lana, I'm so very sorry about Paul. When you're feeling up to it, please let us know how you're doing. :hugs:
     
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  14. Kat0121

    Kat0121 Advisor Staff Member Advisor

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    Oh Lana I'm so sorry. I wish I didn't know how you feel but I do. My DH passed away 7 years ago. Please take care of yourself. It's very easy to get wrapped up in grief and planning everything that you can forget to do that. Yes, he is at peace now but he will always be with you. Love never dies. We are here for you if you need us. :hugs:
     
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  15. doomsdave

    doomsdave TCS Member Top Cat

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    Lana, love never dies, but don't let it kill you in the present.
     
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  16. denice

    denice Advisor Staff Member Advisor

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    I am so sorry.
     

  17. rgwanner

    rgwanner TCS Member Alpha Cat

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    I can only say I am sorry. My thoughts and prayers for you, Paul and your family.
     

  18. foxden

    foxden TCS Member Super Cat

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself during this very difficult time.
     

  19. lizzie

    lizzie TCS Member Alpha Cat

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    I am so sorry for your loss.You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
     

  20. AbbysMom

    AbbysMom At Abby's beck and call Staff Member Moderator

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    I'm so sorry, Lana. Keeping you in my thoughts. :hugs:
     

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