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  1. kookycats

    kookycats Thread Starter TCS Member Top Cat

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    Everything just too much for him. He is now at Hospice resting comfortably. Just matter of time now. Heartbreaking. He went thru so much but the end is near. Please keep Paul in your thoughts and prayers.
     
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  2. AbbysMom

    AbbysMom At Abby's beck and call Staff Member Moderator

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    I'm so sorry, Lana. :hugs: Keeping you both in my thoughts. :hearthrob:
     
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  3. foxxycat

    foxxycat TCS Member Top Cat

    I'm So very sorry. This is the hardest part. I am sending you hugs and prayers for comfort. You and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers. :hugs:
     
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  4. Furballsmom

    Furballsmom Cat Fan especially Black Cats Staff Member Forum Helper

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    I am also keeping you both in my prayers :vibes::redheartpump:
     
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  5. 1 bruce 1

    1 bruce 1 TCS Member Top Cat

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    I have no words. :(
    I am so sorry. I am glad he's comfortable at least.
    Hospice teams are usually the best of the best, when it comes to care AND compassion and communication with the family.
    I've been there and I would bet that a lot of the members here have, too. We're thinking of you and are here for you.
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  6. Margret

    Margret TCS Member Top Cat

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    When my dad was dying of cancer I was in a support group for care givers. One of our members had a mother with cancer who had been in a residential hospice until she was kicked out, not because she had a problematic personality (which she did) but because the hospice care she'd received was so good that she was no longer considered to be terminal. Hospices are that good. I'm very sorry that you're going through this, but I can't think of a better place for Paul to be right now.

    For both of you, :vibes::vibes::vibes::alright: :grouphug2: :hugs:.

    I'm sure you already know this, but we'll be here for you the whole time. Blessed be. :heartshape: :hugs:

    Margret
     
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  7. 1 bruce 1

    1 bruce 1 TCS Member Top Cat

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    That underlined part...wow!!!!
    I've done some battles with doctors but the hospice people have always been some of the best.
     
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  8. doomsdave

    doomsdave TCS Member Top Cat

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    @kookycats so sad to her about your husband, but at least he's being cared for and looked after, which makes it a bit easier on you, not that it's easy.

    When my dad went into hospice, they took good care of all of us.

    You're in our prayers, dear.
     
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  9. neely

    neely May the purr be with you Staff Member Forum Helper

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    My sincere sympathies to both Paul and you. :hugs: I will say a prayer for him tonight and keep you in my thoughts.
    As others have said, Hospice is like having an angel by your bedside. :angel:
     
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  10. Kat0121

    Kat0121 Advisor Staff Member Advisor

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    Lana, I'm so sorry. You and he are in our thoughts and prayers. I have no doubt that he is receiving the best of care. Please let him know that we are thinking of him. :hugs:
     
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  11. MoochNNoodles

    MoochNNoodles TCS Member Veteran

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    Oh I'm so sorry to hear this. You are both in my thoughts and prayers. :( :hugs:
     
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  12. Winchester

    Winchester TCS Member Veteran

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    Lana, I'm so sorry about Paul. :hugs:
     
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  13. Mia6

    Mia6 Mother of two Top Cat

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    I am so very sorry. My thoughts and prayers are
    with Paul, you and your family.
     
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  14. Norachan

    Norachan Moderator Staff Member Moderator

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    I'm so sorry. :hugs: Thinking of you both.
     
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  15. mama africa

    mama africa TCS Member Top Cat

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    I'll keep both of you in my thoughts. I can imagine what you're going through.
     
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  16. bbdoll22

    bbdoll22 TCS Member Top Cat

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    I am so sorry. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.
     
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  17. cassiopea

    cassiopea TCS Member Top Cat

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    Many hugs and well wishes coming your way for you, your family and your husband :grouphug:


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  18. Boris Diamond

    Boris Diamond Cat Valet Top Cat

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    Sorry you are going through this. You and Paul are in my thoughts and prayers.:redheartpump:
     
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  19. margecat

    margecat Mentor Staff Member Mentor

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    Oh, Lana, I'm so sorry. Both you and Paul will be in my thoughts and prayers. :grouphug:
     
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  20. aliceneko

    aliceneko TCS Member Top Cat

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    Oh, I'm so sorry. I'll be keeping both you and Paul in my prayers and will be sending lots of love and positivity your way. :hugs:
     
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