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Declawing is really "denuckling".
Like others here, the thought sickens me.
It literally took our cats all of 10 minutes to learn to use their 3 new scratching posts.
Emotions aside.....you have an important challenge here.
If you want to save her kitten from pain and suffering, you will have to change your friends mind.
You will have to sell to her, the acceptance of not declawing.
In order to do that, you need to know WHY she wants to declaw her kitten, and then remove that reason (s).
Crash course on sales.......you must meet 3 criteria when making your pitches....
-is this message for me
- is what she or he is saying true
-are they on my side
When making your arguments, your relative must subconsciously be saying "yes" to thise questions or you wont be able to sell her.
It sounds like her main concern is her furniture. I suggest buying a quailty scratching post and teaching her kitten to use it. The best post I have found is called .......the ultimate cat scratching post.
Find out her reasons for wanting to deknuckle and then tell us.
We might be able to provide methods to overcome her objections.
What is her"why"?
Like others here, the thought sickens me.
It literally took our cats all of 10 minutes to learn to use their 3 new scratching posts.
Emotions aside.....you have an important challenge here.
If you want to save her kitten from pain and suffering, you will have to change your friends mind.
You will have to sell to her, the acceptance of not declawing.
In order to do that, you need to know WHY she wants to declaw her kitten, and then remove that reason (s).
Crash course on sales.......you must meet 3 criteria when making your pitches....
-is this message for me
- is what she or he is saying true
-are they on my side
When making your arguments, your relative must subconsciously be saying "yes" to thise questions or you wont be able to sell her.
It sounds like her main concern is her furniture. I suggest buying a quailty scratching post and teaching her kitten to use it. The best post I have found is called .......the ultimate cat scratching post.
Find out her reasons for wanting to deknuckle and then tell us.
We might be able to provide methods to overcome her objections.
What is her"why"?