my cat is 2 years old. He has two litter boxes cleaned all the time. He has the appropriate food, water, toys, grooming, love. He has been to the vet. I spend 40 minutes every single day, at the very minimum, as play time with my cat is this enough? I played with him one day (no exaggeration!)3 1/2 hours and he was still crying! At the end of play time I was crying because I couldn't get any sleep with his crying and getting into things.
Do I need a 2nd cat? His shelter mommy said he was best as a single kity, (she only had him for 2 months. he was feral and she had him in a tiny room with 12 other cats with only 3 litter boxes too and the other 30 roaming her house) but when I went there I really wanted 2 cats.....but my bf is a miserable piece of work and wouldn't allow it. Even though he is my cat and I pay for everything.
What if i get a 2nd cat and then he does not like him, how would I know what to pick?
I am trying my absolute best, but he still acts out and crys incessantly. My cat is a velcro cat. I am at my wits end, he wants to play non stop and I obviously cannot do that, but do more than most ( i think). I am sad and then frustrated and then feel guilty if I don not play with him all day long! I can't get anything done because he is always on me, or in things or crying or sick.
I don't know what to do anymore someone, anyone kill me with some kindness!
Do I need a 2nd cat? His shelter mommy said he was best as a single kity, (she only had him for 2 months. he was feral and she had him in a tiny room with 12 other cats with only 3 litter boxes too and the other 30 roaming her house) but when I went there I really wanted 2 cats.....but my bf is a miserable piece of work and wouldn't allow it. Even though he is my cat and I pay for everything.
What if i get a 2nd cat and then he does not like him, how would I know what to pick?
I am trying my absolute best, but he still acts out and crys incessantly. My cat is a velcro cat. I am at my wits end, he wants to play non stop and I obviously cannot do that, but do more than most ( i think). I am sad and then frustrated and then feel guilty if I don not play with him all day long! I can't get anything done because he is always on me, or in things or crying or sick.
I don't know what to do anymore someone, anyone kill me with some kindness!