We have 10 week old kittens , I started by asking around and showing either pictures on phone my describing them ( ours are sll different) . When three had homes I let my six year old pick her favourite, then I realized I couldn't let go of the one that looks exactly like a cat my now 18 yesr old daughter and I had her whole childhood. So it might be easier to keep the one left over[emoji]128578[/emoji]