hello ppl, this is really not cat related. Just some personal problems which i felt like sharing.I have been in this forum for only like two days but i can feel the warmth and support u ppl give to one another even if u ppl are just so far away..*i'm in singapore btw*
i recently just broke up with my boy fren of 2 yrs..though it's not a long period but we have dragged this whole relationship thingy for the past 6 yrs. we've been thru a lot of things together and i thought we were stable enough to withstand certain things. he broke up without a reason or rather without a proper reason. the next thing i know is that he has found himself somebody else. i asked if he loved her, he told me she just happens to be there and so she's his gf now. heartbroken. a lot of friends tell me that they are not gonna last, some guy friends tell me that it is just something to distract himself from the failed relationship. i'm not sure.
it's been a mth since we broke up. tears have stopped but once in a while i still feel the loneliness of being single. i can't help but feel useless as a modern woman. i'm not independent and strong as what ppl define modern working woman should be. Strong and undeterred by anything..not even a relationship. i really feel lousy about myself. i love this guy all my life and he just left like this. it's tough licking the wounds all by myself. it gets worse when i get home and i see my two kids. Boy boy who is very close to him suffers the impact of our breakup much more. he's lost somebody he loved too. he sits by the door everyday waiting for his visit and he's not even eating and just wants to be left alone. i know he feels sad...i feel sad looking at him like this too. but i have always felt it was our problem and it shouldn't have impacted him. I've tried telling him abt it but he just walks away and slumps on one side. here i am trying to cope with a breakup which nearly cost my life, and there he is trying to cope with the loss of his daddy. ppl, u get the drift.
i've been feeling a whole lot better nowadays but some times i just get into those moods when i miss him a whole lot. it's tiring bottling up everything and struggling on my own. i just wanted to share this with u ppl. it feels a whole lot better now.
i recently just broke up with my boy fren of 2 yrs..though it's not a long period but we have dragged this whole relationship thingy for the past 6 yrs. we've been thru a lot of things together and i thought we were stable enough to withstand certain things. he broke up without a reason or rather without a proper reason. the next thing i know is that he has found himself somebody else. i asked if he loved her, he told me she just happens to be there and so she's his gf now. heartbroken. a lot of friends tell me that they are not gonna last, some guy friends tell me that it is just something to distract himself from the failed relationship. i'm not sure.
it's been a mth since we broke up. tears have stopped but once in a while i still feel the loneliness of being single. i can't help but feel useless as a modern woman. i'm not independent and strong as what ppl define modern working woman should be. Strong and undeterred by anything..not even a relationship. i really feel lousy about myself. i love this guy all my life and he just left like this. it's tough licking the wounds all by myself. it gets worse when i get home and i see my two kids. Boy boy who is very close to him suffers the impact of our breakup much more. he's lost somebody he loved too. he sits by the door everyday waiting for his visit and he's not even eating and just wants to be left alone. i know he feels sad...i feel sad looking at him like this too. but i have always felt it was our problem and it shouldn't have impacted him. I've tried telling him abt it but he just walks away and slumps on one side. here i am trying to cope with a breakup which nearly cost my life, and there he is trying to cope with the loss of his daddy. ppl, u get the drift.
i've been feeling a whole lot better nowadays but some times i just get into those moods when i miss him a whole lot. it's tiring bottling up everything and struggling on my own. i just wanted to share this with u ppl. it feels a whole lot better now.