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We got my resident cat about 3 1/2 months ago from a shelter, she is about 2. She loves all people and it only took about 20 minutes after we brought her home to get used to us, cuddle with us and get used to the home. 3 days ago we brought home a new, 6 month old rescue. It took a day for her to get used to us, now she is cuddly and loves being with us. The first day our resident cat would not come down from her cat tree because of the new cat. Since then, our resident cat constantly hisses at her when I bring her out of our bedroom. The new cat won’t come out from under our bed during the day unless we come into the room to greet her, but as soon as we leave the room she goes back under the bed. Our resident cat was only hissing at her for the first two days but yesterday was the first day she actually went to attack her. I didn’t let her get the the new cat so I’m not sure if she would’ve hurt her or not. Ever since that attack the new cat has been extra scared and the little roaming she would do around the house during the day, she no longer does, unless we close the door to the bedroom. (Which is her “safe space” with food and water etc.) I have since then bought 2 Fleiway diffusers and give my resident cat natural calming pills at night so we can bring the new cat out to roam a little under our supervision. At night, when I’m sleeping the new cat and resident cat are both pretty active, I don’t know if they have any actual interaction but I have woken up and seen them both walking around the house. How long should I let her hide in fear and let my resident cat hiss and bully her into being scared before considering giving her back to her foster home?
P.s. I know you’re supposed to slowly introduce them and lock the new cat into a room and introduce their scents but I didn’t know that when I got her, and when I tried to lock her in a room after I learned all of that she got really sad and all the progress we made with her for her to trust us, and let us pet her went down the drain, so I’m not doing that.
P.s. I know you’re supposed to slowly introduce them and lock the new cat into a room and introduce their scents but I didn’t know that when I got her, and when I tried to lock her in a room after I learned all of that she got really sad and all the progress we made with her for her to trust us, and let us pet her went down the drain, so I’m not doing that.