My husband and I are planning a small get together for our wedding anniversary, and have decided to have it at a nice bar in our area. You know the place where you can go have a few drinks, maybe a nice appetizer, and have some fun. Well, because this is at a BARwe told everyone that it wouldn't be an ideal place for children. Well now my sister in law is upset. She thinks that we are deliberately planning functions to get out of having her kids come. I am almost at the point of saying, don't come, but my husband would like me to try to smooth things over. What do you think that I should do?