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I don't know why. I have never done anything mean to the cat. I have tried playing, giving treats, etc...
I am the one who is home during the day most of the time. My wife works. The cat lays low all day long. Then when my wife gets home, she comes to life, meowing, following my wife around the house, sleeping with her, but me. If the cat is sleeping on the couch, I will just go sit quetly at the end of the couch. Soon the cat's eyes are open and her ears are bavk. Within 1-2 minutes she jumps away. Most of the day when I am home I never see the cat. But around the time my wife gets home from work the cat comes and sits by the door waiting for her.
If my wife is out in the evening the cat sits alone in the dark downstairs in the midfle of the room. If I come down she shoits right upstairs. All her toys are down there but I don't even have an opportunity to engage her in play because she runs away.
I am disabled and don't work. We got the cat a couple of years ago to provide me with some companionship since the kids are gone and I am home by myself all day. This is worse then having no cat. Because I have to watch the cat pointedly ignore me all day long and then mob my wife as she walks in the door. Every day. I know it is just an animal, but it still hurts me. I even got a bottle of Calm Kitty spray and tried spraying myself and the room that I spend the most time in, all to no avail. I don't know what to do. But I don't like watching the cat suddenly become alive and affectionate when my wife walks in the door after having spent the entire day in the same house and never seeing the cat. Any ideas?
I am the one who is home during the day most of the time. My wife works. The cat lays low all day long. Then when my wife gets home, she comes to life, meowing, following my wife around the house, sleeping with her, but me. If the cat is sleeping on the couch, I will just go sit quetly at the end of the couch. Soon the cat's eyes are open and her ears are bavk. Within 1-2 minutes she jumps away. Most of the day when I am home I never see the cat. But around the time my wife gets home from work the cat comes and sits by the door waiting for her.
If my wife is out in the evening the cat sits alone in the dark downstairs in the midfle of the room. If I come down she shoits right upstairs. All her toys are down there but I don't even have an opportunity to engage her in play because she runs away.
I am disabled and don't work. We got the cat a couple of years ago to provide me with some companionship since the kids are gone and I am home by myself all day. This is worse then having no cat. Because I have to watch the cat pointedly ignore me all day long and then mob my wife as she walks in the door. Every day. I know it is just an animal, but it still hurts me. I even got a bottle of Calm Kitty spray and tried spraying myself and the room that I spend the most time in, all to no avail. I don't know what to do. But I don't like watching the cat suddenly become alive and affectionate when my wife walks in the door after having spent the entire day in the same house and never seeing the cat. Any ideas?