I have never posted anything like this, but I really need to talk to someone and I just can't talk to anyone around me for one reason or another.
So, yesterday, I was checking my bf email to see if the college he had applied to had responded yet (he knew about me checking). Well, I accidently clicked on one of his emails and found out that he has been corresponding wih one of his ex's. That's fine-- I wasn't jealous or anything like that, she's a high school ex and we have both been out of high school for 10 years. Some of the stuff that he was talking to her about didn't seem quite right though. He remembered their anniversary and stuff like that so I was a little suspicious and read the emails that he sent to her. To sum it up, he told her that he was seeing "some girl" and that there were "no strings attached". What?!! Silly me, I thought that since we live together and had talked about getting married and having kids that there were some strings.
Long story short, I told him that he was an SOB and that I was not staying with him. Unfortunately, we live together and unless he moves out, we have to stay here. I have already signed a lease at another apartment for May and can't really go anywhere now. This is not a new relationship by any means; we've been together for 3 years and we're both almost 30 so I thought that there would be a little more maturity in our relationship, but I guess I was wrong. Do you guys think that I overreacted?
So, yesterday, I was checking my bf email to see if the college he had applied to had responded yet (he knew about me checking). Well, I accidently clicked on one of his emails and found out that he has been corresponding wih one of his ex's. That's fine-- I wasn't jealous or anything like that, she's a high school ex and we have both been out of high school for 10 years. Some of the stuff that he was talking to her about didn't seem quite right though. He remembered their anniversary and stuff like that so I was a little suspicious and read the emails that he sent to her. To sum it up, he told her that he was seeing "some girl" and that there were "no strings attached". What?!! Silly me, I thought that since we live together and had talked about getting married and having kids that there were some strings.
Long story short, I told him that he was an SOB and that I was not staying with him. Unfortunately, we live together and unless he moves out, we have to stay here. I have already signed a lease at another apartment for May and can't really go anywhere now. This is not a new relationship by any means; we've been together for 3 years and we're both almost 30 so I thought that there would be a little more maturity in our relationship, but I guess I was wrong. Do you guys think that I overreacted?