Sorry guys but I just want to moan about a friend of mine to people who DO understand.....
Now this gal has abeen a friend of mine for a while, when I first met her she had three cats.. all lovely friendly cats. However about two years ago she bought a new kitty called Gizmo, he was a nice little kitten but as he's got older he's started misbehaving..... toileting on the carpet, scratching the suite etc etc (I've offered advice like "get a scratch mat").... anyway, a while ago she decides she's going to take him to the rescue centre as he "doesn't fit in" and "is a nasty cat", but she's told she'll have to pay a whole £5 have him taken in there, (geee thats soooo expensive...
) so she decides not to - they'll just advertise him in the paper... great.... anyway, while all this is going on I'm trying to convince her to have him neutered (he's now 2 years old and still un-neutered) a) because it may just calm him down, and b) because if she is determined to get rid of him, it will help if he IS neutered. But nope.... she still doesn't want to know. He's just got over being really ill (jaundice I think??) and she wants to get rid of him as soon as possible because..... wait for it..... she wants to get a pair of Bengals that she "might" let have a litter....
Seriously, Im at my witts end with her, I've tried telling her, I've tried hinting/suggesting things, I've tried get angry with her..... but nope, she knows best..... grrrrrr..... and she's just so stubborn she won't even consider any advice I've offered..... does this really bug anyone else??? What else can I do??
Oh and, two of cats have recently disappeared.....but never mind..... she's not bothered at all..... she still see's them in the street but they won't come near her..... but she doesn't mind cos they look like they're being fed.....
Now this gal has abeen a friend of mine for a while, when I first met her she had three cats.. all lovely friendly cats. However about two years ago she bought a new kitty called Gizmo, he was a nice little kitten but as he's got older he's started misbehaving..... toileting on the carpet, scratching the suite etc etc (I've offered advice like "get a scratch mat").... anyway, a while ago she decides she's going to take him to the rescue centre as he "doesn't fit in" and "is a nasty cat", but she's told she'll have to pay a whole £5 have him taken in there, (geee thats soooo expensive...
Seriously, Im at my witts end with her, I've tried telling her, I've tried hinting/suggesting things, I've tried get angry with her..... but nope, she knows best..... grrrrrr..... and she's just so stubborn she won't even consider any advice I've offered..... does this really bug anyone else??? What else can I do??
Oh and, two of cats have recently disappeared.....but never mind..... she's not bothered at all..... she still see's them in the street but they won't come near her..... but she doesn't mind cos they look like they're being fed.....