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My 8 month old kitten has been very distant lately and I am a bit hurt. I don't know why she is like that: is it her character, is she sad, stressed or is it teenage time?
I tried to give her everything I can: she has all the toys she could possibly desire, 2 cat perches, 1 cat tree, 2 tunnels, food puzzles, tents, 1 bird feeder, 1 fountain ect... I play so much with her. Almost 3 to 4hours a day. I always try to be there for her early enough in the evening. I give her as much attention as I possibly can, I feed her top quality food, I play with her, I talk to her, I never force her when she does not want pets or cuddles. I don't think I could do any better for her. She is not a lap cat and I have learn to accept who she is and love her way of showing me love. She is so important to me.
She is quite demanding, when she wants to play, she wants to play and she will ask for it as much as is necessary. I sometimes have the impression that she is disappointed when I can't play with her and she makes that clear.
Lately she has become increasingly distant and I am a bit broken hearted. I miss how much we used to cuddle, I miss her grooming me, I miss her purring when I pet her, I miss her coming to bed with me. Is that a phase? How can I help her coming back to me? Is there anything else I can do?
Sorry to bother you but I am so sad right now
I tried to give her everything I can: she has all the toys she could possibly desire, 2 cat perches, 1 cat tree, 2 tunnels, food puzzles, tents, 1 bird feeder, 1 fountain ect... I play so much with her. Almost 3 to 4hours a day. I always try to be there for her early enough in the evening. I give her as much attention as I possibly can, I feed her top quality food, I play with her, I talk to her, I never force her when she does not want pets or cuddles. I don't think I could do any better for her. She is not a lap cat and I have learn to accept who she is and love her way of showing me love. She is so important to me.
She is quite demanding, when she wants to play, she wants to play and she will ask for it as much as is necessary. I sometimes have the impression that she is disappointed when I can't play with her and she makes that clear.
Lately she has become increasingly distant and I am a bit broken hearted. I miss how much we used to cuddle, I miss her grooming me, I miss her purring when I pet her, I miss her coming to bed with me. Is that a phase? How can I help her coming back to me? Is there anything else I can do?
Sorry to bother you but I am so sad right now