Ok so I have 4 cats living indoors now that we have moved into a bigger place. Oliver will be 6 years old in April, Pinball is 11 months old and Sally just hit 6 months. A few months prior to moving we had a stray adult calico show up who was named "Cali". We started feeding her and she hung around. We tried introducing her at the old house but my cats would have none of it, probably because 3 cats were already so cramped in 600sqf. We're now in almost double that and on neutral territory. Cali is indoors now and for the most part everyone seems happy....Except Sally. She's raging hell on ALL the cats when Cali is around, and God forbid there is food present. She's used to eating out of a "community" bowl with Ollie and Pin but if she even SEES Cali she will start hissing and trying to fight the other two. If Cali isn't around then Sally is perfectly fine and eats well with the others. I've got like 8 bowls laying around the house right now because of these fights. Oliver is the most chill cat ever, he has no interest in anything going on and just walks away. Pinball on the other hand is VERY sensitive to the aggressive outburst and I'm worried about his stress level. He likes peace and quiet. I assume this is mostly Sally trying to assert some sort of dominance but when will it end?? Cali will pick fights too if the others get near her bowl. Last night Cali and Sally were eating side by side (their own choice, I have like 8 bowls laying around) and when I moved a 3rd bowl from between them they looked at each other, hissed and then smacked each other at the same time.
I'm at a loss on how to keep the peace between all the cats, especially Sally and Cali who are the offenders. Oliver just wants to be friends (He was my "momma cat" to Pin and Sally when they were itty bitty kittens and even now) and Pin just wants things to be his normal routine. :/ I never had these issues when I introduced Pin or Sally, it seems to be an issue with Cali being an adult. (Of unknown age, though I suspect around Oliver's age.) More than anything I want mealtimes to be peaceful and for Pin to not feel like he can't eat. Oliver will walk away and go to another bowl but Pin kinda shuts down. Will they ever be able to eat in the same room?
I'm at a loss on how to keep the peace between all the cats, especially Sally and Cali who are the offenders. Oliver just wants to be friends (He was my "momma cat" to Pin and Sally when they were itty bitty kittens and even now) and Pin just wants things to be his normal routine. :/ I never had these issues when I introduced Pin or Sally, it seems to be an issue with Cali being an adult. (Of unknown age, though I suspect around Oliver's age.) More than anything I want mealtimes to be peaceful and for Pin to not feel like he can't eat. Oliver will walk away and go to another bowl but Pin kinda shuts down. Will they ever be able to eat in the same room?