Hi everyone. Hopefully this is the right section of the forum. I'm looking for advice on what to expect and preventative measures regarding my cat's relationship with me following my time away.
I'm a relatively new cat owner. My girlfriend and I live in an apartment together with our 14-month-old female ragdoll who we've had for almost a year now. This is my first cat.
The cat is very used to our company as someone has been home with her the majority of the time ever since we've gotten her. However, on Sunday my girlfriend and I will be going away for 5 days and will be taking the cat to stay with a trusted family friend for that time. I'll only be back for one day before I have to leave again for a week. My girlfriend will not be coming on the second trip though and will be able to care for the cat as usual.
My anxiety comes from the fact that I've heard that being away from your cat for long periods of time can cause them to feel resentment / estranged from you when you get back. In my case, not only will I be gone for about two weeks, but for 5 of those days the cat will have neither of us around, in an unfamiliar place with an unfamiliar person, only to have me come back for one day, and leave again. I can only imagine how confused this will make her.
What level of estrangement do you think this may cause my cat to feel from me when I'm finally back? Can this be a long-term thing, or am I likely to be able to repair my relationship with my cat quickly? Is there a chance that she will never feel the same towards me afterwards? What can I do to prevent this happening? And lastly, any advice on leaving your cat with someone else for several days is appreciated as well.
Thanks in advance
I'm a relatively new cat owner. My girlfriend and I live in an apartment together with our 14-month-old female ragdoll who we've had for almost a year now. This is my first cat.
The cat is very used to our company as someone has been home with her the majority of the time ever since we've gotten her. However, on Sunday my girlfriend and I will be going away for 5 days and will be taking the cat to stay with a trusted family friend for that time. I'll only be back for one day before I have to leave again for a week. My girlfriend will not be coming on the second trip though and will be able to care for the cat as usual.
My anxiety comes from the fact that I've heard that being away from your cat for long periods of time can cause them to feel resentment / estranged from you when you get back. In my case, not only will I be gone for about two weeks, but for 5 of those days the cat will have neither of us around, in an unfamiliar place with an unfamiliar person, only to have me come back for one day, and leave again. I can only imagine how confused this will make her.
What level of estrangement do you think this may cause my cat to feel from me when I'm finally back? Can this be a long-term thing, or am I likely to be able to repair my relationship with my cat quickly? Is there a chance that she will never feel the same towards me afterwards? What can I do to prevent this happening? And lastly, any advice on leaving your cat with someone else for several days is appreciated as well.
Thanks in advance