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I adopted a blind, FIV positive cat on Monday. Long-story short. He was hanging around my neighbors yard all summer, but it was clear he had a vision issue. They left food out for him so he'd keep coming around and eventually caught him and brought him to the humane society. After the stray hold, I adopted him. He was neutered on Monday and I brought him home. Since he is blind, I've kept him confined to the safest three rooms in the house. It is about 500 square feet, but there is almost zero chance of him getting hurt in these rooms since I live in a townhouse with bannisters.
The first two days, when I was home he was so loving. He wanted constant pets and just kneaded me or the air while purring constantly. He wouldn't play with me, but he'd at least seek attention. But when I left him, I think he barely moved. Today he has wanted nothing and I mean nothing to do with me. He hissed at me. He figured out how to get in the bathtub and is hiding in there.
I'm just so worried this cat is unhappy being brought inside to a small space. I'm worried he won't get enough stimulation because he is blind and not interested in any of the toys or scratching posts I got. He doesn't like the cat bed and prefers the hardwood. He scarfs down food when I give it to him, so I can't leave him overnight without him eating a days worth of food in one go which I know is bad for their tiny stomaches.
The good news is he is using his litterbox and as of yet he hasn't scratched my stuff. But I don't think he is scratching his scratching post either. I'll need to eventually cut his nails and he'll hate me even more. I just. I don't know. I've always been an animal person. I pet sat growing up. If I was asked to stop by 3 times a day, I'd stop by 5 times. If someone asked me to let their dog out, I'd walk it instead and then cuddle it. I'm crying because I'm afraid this was a mistake, but I've always been the "pets are family, how can you get rid of them" person. But i'm just so scared he hates it here.
Does it get better, or should I really consider taking him back to where he was at least comfortable? They all talked about how loving he was and curious. And he just is so standoffish here.
The first two days, when I was home he was so loving. He wanted constant pets and just kneaded me or the air while purring constantly. He wouldn't play with me, but he'd at least seek attention. But when I left him, I think he barely moved. Today he has wanted nothing and I mean nothing to do with me. He hissed at me. He figured out how to get in the bathtub and is hiding in there.
I'm just so worried this cat is unhappy being brought inside to a small space. I'm worried he won't get enough stimulation because he is blind and not interested in any of the toys or scratching posts I got. He doesn't like the cat bed and prefers the hardwood. He scarfs down food when I give it to him, so I can't leave him overnight without him eating a days worth of food in one go which I know is bad for their tiny stomaches.
The good news is he is using his litterbox and as of yet he hasn't scratched my stuff. But I don't think he is scratching his scratching post either. I'll need to eventually cut his nails and he'll hate me even more. I just. I don't know. I've always been an animal person. I pet sat growing up. If I was asked to stop by 3 times a day, I'd stop by 5 times. If someone asked me to let their dog out, I'd walk it instead and then cuddle it. I'm crying because I'm afraid this was a mistake, but I've always been the "pets are family, how can you get rid of them" person. But i'm just so scared he hates it here.
Does it get better, or should I really consider taking him back to where he was at least comfortable? They all talked about how loving he was and curious. And he just is so standoffish here.