I have a female slightly over a year old named Lily, and a 6 month old male named Jethro. They have bonded very well, but Jethro pesters Lily a lot jumping on her, at her, around her, you name it. I think a lot of it is wanting her to play with him. Sometimes they do, chasing each other around the house. But a lot of the time, I think she is trying to get away from him, because he is pestering her.
Lily and her sister (which we don't have any more) pretty much quit playing with any of their toys when we started going outside. We would spend all day out, and when we come in, they just rested, and maybe play chasing each other around. Neither was greatly interested in their toys much anyways.
Jethro has never been outside, so he enjoys his toys, shoe strings, one I tied a cloth catnip stuffed fish onto, a hugging/kicking toy, a brown furry mouse. But now when I play with him, sometimes Lily acts like she is feeling left out. When he isn't around, she will grab the shoestring and play with it, kitten-like, and some cardboard boxes, she wants to hide under. If I am playing with Jethro, she just sits and watches like she would like to be included, but she won't play as long as he is there. And if she starts to play and he comes along, she stops...
It makes me feel bad to play with him, with her watching, but I feel I can't play with her separately, because then he wants to jump in, and she won't play then.
How can I play with both, without leaving the other out, or play with one, and then play with the other separately? I am at a loss as what to do here...
Lily and her sister (which we don't have any more) pretty much quit playing with any of their toys when we started going outside. We would spend all day out, and when we come in, they just rested, and maybe play chasing each other around. Neither was greatly interested in their toys much anyways.
Jethro has never been outside, so he enjoys his toys, shoe strings, one I tied a cloth catnip stuffed fish onto, a hugging/kicking toy, a brown furry mouse. But now when I play with him, sometimes Lily acts like she is feeling left out. When he isn't around, she will grab the shoestring and play with it, kitten-like, and some cardboard boxes, she wants to hide under. If I am playing with Jethro, she just sits and watches like she would like to be included, but she won't play as long as he is there. And if she starts to play and he comes along, she stops...
It makes me feel bad to play with him, with her watching, but I feel I can't play with her separately, because then he wants to jump in, and she won't play then.
How can I play with both, without leaving the other out, or play with one, and then play with the other separately? I am at a loss as what to do here...