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I adopted a sweet kitten today and I love her a lot. However, before I met her I was considering adopting a 6 year old cat who was extremely sweet and loving. I felt a bond with her but I thought she may be a little sick and she also needed a lot of maintenance because she was in bad shape but I was willing to help her regardless. I had just lost my cat of 13 years, 2 years ago, and I was nervous that because this cat seemed slow and sick that maybe she wouldn't live past 8 or 9 and I was falling for her and afraid to have to lose her. So I didn't adopt her. I feel horrible and have been crying because I'm scared nobody will adopt her and she needs a home and love. I love my kitten and do not regret my kitten at all but I feel guilty and horrible for not adopting the other cat. how do I get past this? please help, thank you.