So I'm trying to train my 6 y/o former stray (was likely born on the street, so she's a finnicky one) with a clicker to do nail trims because she's always catching on everything. It's slow going, but it's going ok. I've gotten to the point of getting her to let me pick up, handle and press on her paws. I know there's thousands of threads, articles and video tutorials about how to cut a cat's nails, but the problem I'm running into is on my end...I have no idea how to get her claws to extend!! Can anyone doodle a little diagram of where exactly I'm supposed to be pressing to get the claws to come out? I'm gently but firmly pressing the top and bottom of the paw at the same time where her claw meets the palm (or where the palm would be on a human haha). I've tried slightly different spots around that area but her claws don't become visible, she just gets irritated and jerks her hand away.
Also, is it possible that it's because I'm sitting in front of her while she is also sitting upright facing me? This is the only way I can do these training sessions because she's a very anxious/traumatized cat who will not let me pick her up or place her on my lap, and the restrain/burrito method is not only impossible but would super detrimental to her ongoing adjustment to indoor life with humans/trust. I've tried while she's sleeping too...she's NEVER deeply asleep and can sense me even coming into her vicinity, wakes up, and fusses and gets up if I try to touch her.
She's scared the crap out of herself so many times because she catches her claw on something that inevitably comes rushing towards her when she tries to pull away (shoes, blankets, cat beds, you name it) and it's so sad, I just want to be able to keep her claws trimmed without a traumatic visit to the vet or groomer (which always results in her not eating normally for days from stress).
Also, is it possible that it's because I'm sitting in front of her while she is also sitting upright facing me? This is the only way I can do these training sessions because she's a very anxious/traumatized cat who will not let me pick her up or place her on my lap, and the restrain/burrito method is not only impossible but would super detrimental to her ongoing adjustment to indoor life with humans/trust. I've tried while she's sleeping too...she's NEVER deeply asleep and can sense me even coming into her vicinity, wakes up, and fusses and gets up if I try to touch her.
She's scared the crap out of herself so many times because she catches her claw on something that inevitably comes rushing towards her when she tries to pull away (shoes, blankets, cat beds, you name it) and it's so sad, I just want to be able to keep her claws trimmed without a traumatic visit to the vet or groomer (which always results in her not eating normally for days from stress).