I have not done a whole lot of fostering. I have fostered 2 kitties that turned out to be terminal. So letting them go was hard, but since they are gone I know they are in a better place. Right now I am fostering Nera for the second time. She has eyelid agenisis. She is super sweet with me, but hates my other cats. I know that I can not keep her, but I am dreading the day I have to take her back to the shelter. When I did it the first time, I knew she would be comming back after her next procedure. Today she is getting her teeth cleaned & then she needs another eye surgery with at least a month recovery time. So it is not like I'm going to have to take her back tomorrow, but I'm just trying to prepare myself. I just want her to get a good home & be with someone who can give her all the love and attention she needs. She is very attatched to me, as I am to her, but my home is not a good fit for her. I just know it's going to be hard when I don't get to see her every day, and tell her how beautiful she is. I am trying to prepare for that day. So how do you all deal with that day?