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Hi all, I adopted my first cat about 3 months ago. When she first came home after surgery we isolated her to our bedroom for about a week and during her first few days she was sleeping on my chest and cuddly as could be.
We eventually let her explore the house but at night she would still sleep in bed with us. Fast forward to now and she wont even let me close enough to pet her and NEVER sleeps in our room let alone our bed. We haven't changed anything she is fed every 8 hours like clock work I have feliway oil, cat trees, two litter boxes and more toys then she could ever use. Why is she less and less friendly? Could we be doing something to make her less comfortable around us? I had to give her dewormer that might have made her not trust me but otherwise I don't see why her behavior changed.
Tldr: my cat was cuddly now is not are there things I can do to improve our bond?
We eventually let her explore the house but at night she would still sleep in bed with us. Fast forward to now and she wont even let me close enough to pet her and NEVER sleeps in our room let alone our bed. We haven't changed anything she is fed every 8 hours like clock work I have feliway oil, cat trees, two litter boxes and more toys then she could ever use. Why is she less and less friendly? Could we be doing something to make her less comfortable around us? I had to give her dewormer that might have made her not trust me but otherwise I don't see why her behavior changed.
Tldr: my cat was cuddly now is not are there things I can do to improve our bond?