Hi All,
Oooooh, people can be so very manipulative and cruel toward cats.
I am a volunteer with a small local organization that tries to help prevent problems for and with homeless domestic cats (aka "ferals"). We put a lot of time and effort into a series of workshops we offer every month or so, to try to educate people about the issues and what we all can do together. We are, like most groups around us, still too small and too underfunded to "do for" people. Even if we could, I guess, we have found that "doing for" someone just convinces them that they are helpless, so we try hard not to take that approach.
We got a call from someone who *two years ago* came to the whole series of workshops we do. Learned about the issues, came to learn about how to use safe live traps, heard how we go about fostering and re-socializing cats, the whole deal. Took away the full notebook with a blank tracking sheet, contact information for us and for all kind of other organizations too. Spent two years feeding cats, and now she puts out an APB.
It seems she is now moving, and has started to wonder what to do about all the cats. All of a sudden, she's threatening that (she loves animals, but) she will have to call the pound to round up and kill the cats because "Nobody will help me."
I understand that it's confusing with so many different groups all saying different things about what is best for cats. But it's sure frustrating, too, when you invest in giving people the tools to help, and they turn around and give you a blank stare while they threaten cats with pointless deaths.
Hundreds of other people who have attended our workshops have "gotten it." Why do I feel like I should chose one of those cases to drop, so that I can go and attend to this group of cats under threat, when all along, the other cases are people who have been willing to devote some of their OWN time and energy to helping?
No reason, I guess. Just a guilt trip! It is much more pleasant to work with someone who's cooperative and curious -- and who doesn't try to threaten you to get her way!
Oooooh, people can be so very manipulative and cruel toward cats.
I am a volunteer with a small local organization that tries to help prevent problems for and with homeless domestic cats (aka "ferals"). We put a lot of time and effort into a series of workshops we offer every month or so, to try to educate people about the issues and what we all can do together. We are, like most groups around us, still too small and too underfunded to "do for" people. Even if we could, I guess, we have found that "doing for" someone just convinces them that they are helpless, so we try hard not to take that approach.
We got a call from someone who *two years ago* came to the whole series of workshops we do. Learned about the issues, came to learn about how to use safe live traps, heard how we go about fostering and re-socializing cats, the whole deal. Took away the full notebook with a blank tracking sheet, contact information for us and for all kind of other organizations too. Spent two years feeding cats, and now she puts out an APB.
It seems she is now moving, and has started to wonder what to do about all the cats. All of a sudden, she's threatening that (she loves animals, but) she will have to call the pound to round up and kill the cats because "Nobody will help me."
I understand that it's confusing with so many different groups all saying different things about what is best for cats. But it's sure frustrating, too, when you invest in giving people the tools to help, and they turn around and give you a blank stare while they threaten cats with pointless deaths.
Hundreds of other people who have attended our workshops have "gotten it." Why do I feel like I should chose one of those cases to drop, so that I can go and attend to this group of cats under threat, when all along, the other cases are people who have been willing to devote some of their OWN time and energy to helping?
No reason, I guess. Just a guilt trip! It is much more pleasant to work with someone who's cooperative and curious -- and who doesn't try to threaten you to get her way!