I am fairly new here but I really needed to tell someone that would be easy. I need to have a little rant and just talk (or type in this case). Anyways I went to the doctors because I had just been feeling really sick the past couple months. I honestly thought it was my IBS acting up but went in to the doctors because it just wouldnt get better. So they asked the regular questions and told me they wanted to do a pregnancy test just to rule it out. I havnt had sex in over 2 months! So I honestly didnt think I was pregnant. I had spotted a couple times and was happy because my period only lasted a day or two.
When the doctor told me I thought he was joking and then I had a mild freak out. Ok maybe a major one. I was crying and totally freaking out to be honest. He said "If you dont wont the pregnancy I can take care of it". I cant have an abortion it's against everything I believe in. I dont hold it against other women when they have one I just could never do it. So now I'm sitting here trying to figure out how to tell my family that I'm pregnant. And I have to tell my new boyfriend (not the baby's Dad). I really dont want to do that. Weve only been dating a month and who could ask a guy to stick around in a situation like that. It wouldnt be fair to him. I really like him too.
I have to tell my Ex too. I really dont want to he's such a jerk. We broke up because he went after Lily when she decided to spray his guitar one day. After that I packed up me and some clothes and my animals and left. I havnt talked to him since then. He was very mentally abusive to me. I dont want to tell him I'm pregnant. I really dont know what to do.
I do have a couple of questions though for those who have kids. Should I worry about changing the cat litter? I know I can get someone to do it for me if I really have to. Also what responses did you give people who said that you had to give up your cats because of toxoplasmosis? Or whatever it's called.
When the doctor told me I thought he was joking and then I had a mild freak out. Ok maybe a major one. I was crying and totally freaking out to be honest. He said "If you dont wont the pregnancy I can take care of it". I cant have an abortion it's against everything I believe in. I dont hold it against other women when they have one I just could never do it. So now I'm sitting here trying to figure out how to tell my family that I'm pregnant. And I have to tell my new boyfriend (not the baby's Dad). I really dont want to do that. Weve only been dating a month and who could ask a guy to stick around in a situation like that. It wouldnt be fair to him. I really like him too.
I have to tell my Ex too. I really dont want to he's such a jerk. We broke up because he went after Lily when she decided to spray his guitar one day. After that I packed up me and some clothes and my animals and left. I havnt talked to him since then. He was very mentally abusive to me. I dont want to tell him I'm pregnant. I really dont know what to do.
I do have a couple of questions though for those who have kids. Should I worry about changing the cat litter? I know I can get someone to do it for me if I really have to. Also what responses did you give people who said that you had to give up your cats because of toxoplasmosis? Or whatever it's called.