So I have wanted (or thought) I wanted a kitten for the longest time. I have lived with cats since graduating college about 3 years ago and finally bought my own house so I could get me a kitten. I looked for about 3 months and always came up with an excuse as to why the kitten wasnt the one for me.
I live with two roommates who each have a cat. One of my roommates said he wanted to just surprise me with a kitten because he knew I would never pick one otherwise. I told him I needed to have a say in picking the kitten to feel confortable with getting him or her. So yesturday all three of us went to our local human society and they had SO many kittens! I found one that one of my roommates thought was so cute and he is a little cutie for sure. We where rushed on time because we where meeting a friend for dinner and I just kind of word vomited out....."I want to get this kitten." So there I was adopting a kitten. I am such a planner that I felt anexious the whole time I was waiting to fill out the final adoption form. I just didnt mentally prepare to bring home a kitten that day. But I told myself I was being crazy that I have been preparing for a kittin for years now by living with my roommates cats.
There was several times I almost went up to the lady to change my mind but I again told myself I was being crazy. That it was just typical me not liking change and acting spontanious (even through I am the least spntanious person in the world I am pretty sure). We brough the kitten home and I just started crying. I told myself I was just overwhelmed. That the other job and family stresses I am currently dealing with was just effecting how I felt about that kitten. But that I would love it in no time and not regret my decision.
The kitten is only 2 months old and was a crazy ball of energy but settled down at night and slept with me in my bed. I think it was a good first night in general, but I woke up feeling the same anxeity as before. I even told my roommate not to post any of the pictures of the kitten on social media becasue I felt so uneasy keeping him. I only told my mom and 3 close friends who where all super excited for me and didn't understand why I was upset.
Today I found myself reading other peoples posts about having to return their cat or kitten or dog and I just felt like such a horrible person! I still feel like a horrible person for even thinking about returning this kitten! I am sure he will be adopted fast but still I don't feel like I have a good reason at all to return him. Everyones posts where talking about behavior problems or the animal not getting along with their kids etc. Actual reason to return an animal. This kitten doesn't have any of that and here I am feeling guilty for even thinking about returning him. I think I am just acting crazy and need to give it more time to adjust. I don't handle even good change very well and even when I bought my house I freaked out a little but now love it.
My question is, how much time do I give it? When do I know if it is just me or if the kitten just isn't the right one for me. Am I just suppose to live with my roommates cats and not have my own? I never though I would have buyers remorse for a kitten after saying I wanted one for so long. Please help!
I live with two roommates who each have a cat. One of my roommates said he wanted to just surprise me with a kitten because he knew I would never pick one otherwise. I told him I needed to have a say in picking the kitten to feel confortable with getting him or her. So yesturday all three of us went to our local human society and they had SO many kittens! I found one that one of my roommates thought was so cute and he is a little cutie for sure. We where rushed on time because we where meeting a friend for dinner and I just kind of word vomited out....."I want to get this kitten." So there I was adopting a kitten. I am such a planner that I felt anexious the whole time I was waiting to fill out the final adoption form. I just didnt mentally prepare to bring home a kitten that day. But I told myself I was being crazy that I have been preparing for a kittin for years now by living with my roommates cats.
There was several times I almost went up to the lady to change my mind but I again told myself I was being crazy. That it was just typical me not liking change and acting spontanious (even through I am the least spntanious person in the world I am pretty sure). We brough the kitten home and I just started crying. I told myself I was just overwhelmed. That the other job and family stresses I am currently dealing with was just effecting how I felt about that kitten. But that I would love it in no time and not regret my decision.
The kitten is only 2 months old and was a crazy ball of energy but settled down at night and slept with me in my bed. I think it was a good first night in general, but I woke up feeling the same anxeity as before. I even told my roommate not to post any of the pictures of the kitten on social media becasue I felt so uneasy keeping him. I only told my mom and 3 close friends who where all super excited for me and didn't understand why I was upset.
Today I found myself reading other peoples posts about having to return their cat or kitten or dog and I just felt like such a horrible person! I still feel like a horrible person for even thinking about returning this kitten! I am sure he will be adopted fast but still I don't feel like I have a good reason at all to return him. Everyones posts where talking about behavior problems or the animal not getting along with their kids etc. Actual reason to return an animal. This kitten doesn't have any of that and here I am feeling guilty for even thinking about returning him. I think I am just acting crazy and need to give it more time to adjust. I don't handle even good change very well and even when I bought my house I freaked out a little but now love it.
My question is, how much time do I give it? When do I know if it is just me or if the kitten just isn't the right one for me. Am I just suppose to live with my roommates cats and not have my own? I never though I would have buyers remorse for a kitten after saying I wanted one for so long. Please help!