Hi! I tamed four feral cats myself so here is my advice. You have to go very slow with her. It takes a while sometimes. Once she gets comfortable with one thing gently try to get closer to her but when she starts getting nervous back off and show her you aren't threatening her. When they are pushed to fast into something they aren't comfortable with it sets them back actually. Go very slow when you try to get close to her. She will feel less threatened that way. You'll get there. I know you will. Good luck!