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I have a real question here: does my cat not like me? She is not the affectionate kind. More independent than anything and most likely was not raised by her mama, so she plays rough and easily scratches and nips. She most often keeps herself to herself and even if she likes to be where I am and follows me around, she never climbs on my lap. She will only come to her bed next to me or at night she sometimes sleeps at the foot of the bed and comes and wakes me when she wants to be petted (only at night).
i am away for a couple of weeks and asked a cat sitter to come stay at my place for a few days as I hate leaving her alone for so long (she has someone feeding her twice a day the rest of the time). He arrived today to take care of her and within 10 minutes I got this picture. Now I know what you are going to say: she’s been alone for a few days and wants affection. The thing is she happily ignored the last 2 sitters who were with her until now and only came to them if they had a treat, which is the only way for me to get her on my lap (she’ll eat her treat and jump off the second she is done). It’s the second time Jordan comes to stay with her and it’s the same thing each time. She is glued to him the entire time. Is she secretly a lap cat who doesn’t like me for some reason? Does she only like men? If either of these things are right, Is she happy with me? Her behavior is so different with me and with him that I seriously wonder about this.
i am away for a couple of weeks and asked a cat sitter to come stay at my place for a few days as I hate leaving her alone for so long (she has someone feeding her twice a day the rest of the time). He arrived today to take care of her and within 10 minutes I got this picture. Now I know what you are going to say: she’s been alone for a few days and wants affection. The thing is she happily ignored the last 2 sitters who were with her until now and only came to them if they had a treat, which is the only way for me to get her on my lap (she’ll eat her treat and jump off the second she is done). It’s the second time Jordan comes to stay with her and it’s the same thing each time. She is glued to him the entire time. Is she secretly a lap cat who doesn’t like me for some reason? Does she only like men? If either of these things are right, Is she happy with me? Her behavior is so different with me and with him that I seriously wonder about this.
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