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I'm in need of some advice. I have a spayed female 4 yr old cat that I found when she was only a few days old. She was bottle fed and when the time came she was introduced to our older neutered Male cat who is very laid back and mainly known as lazy. Both have always been outdoor cats. They had a love/hate relationship. They would sleep on the same large bed together but not touching and she would occasionally let him groom her head. They would lightly play which almost always turned into chasing and swatting, ending with her growling and hissing - she is pretty dramatic and temperamental. It's almost like she doesnt truly know how to interact with other cats, she wants to and is very playful with humans but when other cats play and may playfully 'tag' her her whole demeanor changes. With that said, unfortunately a few weeks ago her little friend went missing, we've looked everywhere for him and sadly he is no where to be found. She seemed very depressed and has craved attention from my husband and I, something she has never done. She will even meow and meow and scratch at the door until we come out to brush and pet her. When we still had the 2 cats you couldnt pet her for more than a few seconds, and forget brushing her, she hardly purred as well. Now its like a 360, I can pet and brush her and she never gets moody or mad. She will even purr to the point of slightly drooling at times. Her personality has completely changed but I'm concerned about her being lonely. If we go out of town and when we come back she is begging at the door for us and early in the mornings and late at night sometimes. She seems to sleep a lot more than she ever has but still seems to be playful out in the yard and she brought us a 'gift' yesterday, that's something she has never done before. My question is, should I let her be the one and only cat or should we get another one for her companion? Shes a tough one to figure out and I don't know what to do, any advice would be greatly appreciated!!
I'm in need of some advice. I have a spayed female 4 yr old cat that I found when she was only a few days old. She was bottle fed and when the time came she was introduced to our older neutered Male cat who is very laid back and mainly known as lazy. Both have always been outdoor cats. They had a love/hate relationship. They would sleep on the same large bed together but not touching and she would occasionally let him groom her head. They would lightly play which almost always turned into chasing and swatting, ending with her growling and hissing - she is pretty dramatic and temperamental. It's almost like she doesnt truly know how to interact with other cats, she wants to and is very playful with humans but when other cats play and may playfully 'tag' her her whole demeanor changes. With that said, unfortunately a few weeks ago her little friend went missing, we've looked everywhere for him and sadly he is no where to be found. She seemed very depressed and has craved attention from my husband and I, something she has never done. She will even meow and meow and scratch at the door until we come out to brush and pet her. When we still had the 2 cats you couldnt pet her for more than a few seconds, and forget brushing her, she hardly purred as well. Now its like a 360, I can pet and brush her and she never gets moody or mad. She will even purr to the point of slightly drooling at times. Her personality has completely changed but I'm concerned about her being lonely. If we go out of town and when we come back she is begging at the door for us and early in the mornings and late at night sometimes. She seems to sleep a lot more than she ever has but still seems to be playful out in the yard and she brought us a 'gift' yesterday, that's something she has never done before. My question is, should I let her be the one and only cat or should we get another one for her companion? Shes a tough one to figure out and I don't know what to do, any advice would be greatly appreciated!!