Do cats need a buddy of their own kind?

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Good morning,

I know this is likely a loaded question. We have 2 dogs and they try to play together with the cat, but I think they misread signals between the species. Does the cat need a feline playmate? He is about 5 months old and neutered and is still very much a kitten.

Thanks for any insight!
 

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Good morning,

I know this is likely a loaded question. We have 2 dogs and they try to play together with the cat, but I think they misread signals between the species. Does the cat need a feline playmate? He is about 5 months old and neutered and is still very much a kitten.

Thanks for any insight!
Who is misreading signals, the kitten or the dogs?
 

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Yes, I'm sure they misread signals and depending on the kitten's temperament/personality he may be a bit overwhelmed. It's difficult to say since you know your dogs and kitty best but bringing a new feline playmate into the mix could go either way. We had 2 cats with our dog, a grown cat and a very young cat. The grown cat liked the dog better than the young kitty. So that's why I said it depends on their dynamics.

I thought this Article might have some helpful tips for you even though it discusses introductions:
How To Safely Introduce A Cat And A Dog – TheCatSite Articles
 

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When you have two cats that are totally bonded and adore one another, you are inclined to say that every cat needs a buddy. But truth is not all pairs become best friends but a better chance when they are kittens like yours. He would probably love to have a cat friend as a playmate.
 
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I think the dogs and cat misread each other. So, its not a one way street.
 

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I have had it go both ways. Chelsea, a cat, is completely bonded to my dog. She dislikes, but is not aggressive, with the cats. She particularly disliked a male who passed 4 years ago, not a cat who ever hurt her. The three younger ones are bonded and love to be together. I brought the two calico feral sisters, see avatar, into the house to be friends with Jamie who lost his litter and mom at about 4 weeks. For the most part though, most of my cats are more on the independent side which I base on having observed that no one ever missed any other one after a passing. In fact, usually someone took over the vacated bed.
 

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Well, IF you are going to get another cat, your current kitten is at a good age to make an adjustment and to bond. Choose a kitten who is close to yours in age, about the same size, and same activity level.

Should you decide to get another kitten, these articles will help!
 
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