Well, Tola absolutely REFUSES to be held in order to clip her nails. I have had her for 3 weeks now and haven't clipped her nails because she absolutely will NOT let me. My experienced friend came over and tried to hold her and clip but Tola wasn't having any of it and crazily leaped out of her arms doing a twist in the air to show us how much she was unhappy about it! Then she ran and hid. Are there any tips on how I can make this less traumatizing and for her to let me hold her? Or should I just give up and take her to the groomers across the street?