I'm always hearing the crazy cat lady thing from friends and family members who see that I buy insurance for my cats, spend 700 dollars for surgery and medications on my cat instead of giving up on him, for buying lots of toys and healthy foods, for catifying my home so they can feel comfortable. I'm called a crazy cat lady except I'm a guy. I'm 26 and just love my cats and the ferals that live near my apartment. I don't know why that's such a huge deal to people, but I guess it is. Is a male crazy cat person called a cat gentleman? or cat daddy? Not that I care, but is it normal for males to love cats as much as I do? It seems as though those around me are making me an outcast. Why aren't there 'crazy dog ladies' like there's 'crazy cat ladies.' It seems unfair to me. For the record, I'd rather spend a Friday night with my cats than other 25-30 year olds because they just drink until they get alcohol poisoning and Boots scolds me for 2 days straight when I drink. Yes I care more about what my cat thinks than other ppl. What's wrong with being a 26 year old crazy cat gentleman?