Hi, I have had two beautiful foster boy cats for 6 months. They were brought to a kill shelter along with 7 of their siblings by the owner because he "had to many cats" (if he dropped off 9, how many did he have in total?) These boys were well fed but terrified. Hid in the corner and hissed for months. Slowly began coming out after about 2 months. I moved them to my foster room witch has a few other adults and several kittens, which was the best thing I could have done. They adore other cats and love to care for the kittens. They now are out and about, climb cat trees, chase feather wands, play with the other battery operated toys I splurge on, come out when strangers are around, eat treats out of my hands and sometimes even strangers' hands....but they will not let me touch them. When I go in for a gentle pet they dodge my hand and run away. They will be back in a minute, but same thing. When I extend my knuckle for them to pet me, they simply don't. They don't quite have the "abused cat flinch," ie a fear response to an outstretched hand, they just act like they have no idea what I'm doing and want no part of it.
A fostering colleague introduced the term "house feral" to me to describe domesticated cats that didn't get enough socialization in their lives even though they live in house. Is anyone familiar with this concept? They have come a long way in 6 months, but these beautiful boys are never going to leave my foster room and get a forever home until they can be handled. I'm considering clicker training, but I need to learn about it. Does anyone have any suggestions? I don't work so I spend a lot of time with my fosters. I play with them a ton and they have a nice big space full of cat trees, toys, and nooks and crannies to hide. They seem pretty happy on the foster floor and are adorable daddies to the kittens (and the snuggle with the other fosters even though they are intensely bonded.) Does anyone have any suggestions, or can offer some stories of support about similar cats they might have dealt with? Thanks!
A fostering colleague introduced the term "house feral" to me to describe domesticated cats that didn't get enough socialization in their lives even though they live in house. Is anyone familiar with this concept? They have come a long way in 6 months, but these beautiful boys are never going to leave my foster room and get a forever home until they can be handled. I'm considering clicker training, but I need to learn about it. Does anyone have any suggestions? I don't work so I spend a lot of time with my fosters. I play with them a ton and they have a nice big space full of cat trees, toys, and nooks and crannies to hide. They seem pretty happy on the foster floor and are adorable daddies to the kittens (and the snuggle with the other fosters even though they are intensely bonded.) Does anyone have any suggestions, or can offer some stories of support about similar cats they might have dealt with? Thanks!