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Hello,
I have learned so much from reading all the various threads, very appreciative. First time posting. Would love your thoughts on:
2 male cats, litter mates, had since kittens, 1 year old. They are nice boys overall.
More dominant cat would approach before meal time sit in my lap, purrs, chin rubs, grooming, playing, all the good stuff. As soon as meal is over he becomes terrified of me and runs and hides. His brother hangs around and sometimes comes to me for additional pets and a nap on my lap. If I break out the second grooming brush, dominant cat looses all inhibitions, rushes over to get his brushes first. Once he is done, back to being terrified and running off. I m very baffled by this behavior. My biggest concern is the poor guy has all this fear. His much more timid brother on the other hand is always hanging around. How can he be so social and confident then immediately loose it all once the activity is over. Should I be concerned? History wise I m certain no abuse occured. There is one area of friction between us though. He will bully his brother around litter box, water bowl and resting spots (despite having multiples of each). I would then distract him with play and he ll stop. Sometimes he persists. I would then gently pick him up and move him to another spot, put him down, sort of pet him to block his view of his brother to give the timid guy time. Could this be the cause?
I have learned so much from reading all the various threads, very appreciative. First time posting. Would love your thoughts on:
2 male cats, litter mates, had since kittens, 1 year old. They are nice boys overall.
More dominant cat would approach before meal time sit in my lap, purrs, chin rubs, grooming, playing, all the good stuff. As soon as meal is over he becomes terrified of me and runs and hides. His brother hangs around and sometimes comes to me for additional pets and a nap on my lap. If I break out the second grooming brush, dominant cat looses all inhibitions, rushes over to get his brushes first. Once he is done, back to being terrified and running off. I m very baffled by this behavior. My biggest concern is the poor guy has all this fear. His much more timid brother on the other hand is always hanging around. How can he be so social and confident then immediately loose it all once the activity is over. Should I be concerned? History wise I m certain no abuse occured. There is one area of friction between us though. He will bully his brother around litter box, water bowl and resting spots (despite having multiples of each). I would then distract him with play and he ll stop. Sometimes he persists. I would then gently pick him up and move him to another spot, put him down, sort of pet him to block his view of his brother to give the timid guy time. Could this be the cause?