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Hey there,
I have a kitty he's about 14 months old now. Most of the time when I bring him to my bed wrap him under my blanket or hold him beside me and cuddle him he doesn't seem to quite stay there for too long. He starts wagging his tail and tries to escape. Sometimes he will stay in my arms for 30-40 mins very calmly and then leave and then there's also sometimes he will come sleep beside my arms and there's also majority of times where he will come stay on top of my legs etc.
He's also very active, if I move my arms under the blanket he tries to play thinking something is moving and goes crazy.
He has a few spots around the house that's his like sofa etc, if I go there and I cuddle him there on his spot he seems to be okay most of the time and doesn't mind it. It's usually if I pick him up from where he is and I bring him to my bed then things go south sometimes lol
But, I wanna cuddle him lol and hold him in my arms
I've tried sprinkling catnip on my bed etc here and there and it works a little.
I feel like he's anxious or something and needs to be relaxed. Are there any products or anything that can relax him or something? Or what can I do differently to make him know it's okay. I know cats wanna be alone etc and want their own thing and it's hard to change their behaviour but I just wanna hold him when Im trying to fall asleep haha!
Hope to get some insight on this, thank you guys!
I have a kitty he's about 14 months old now. Most of the time when I bring him to my bed wrap him under my blanket or hold him beside me and cuddle him he doesn't seem to quite stay there for too long. He starts wagging his tail and tries to escape. Sometimes he will stay in my arms for 30-40 mins very calmly and then leave and then there's also sometimes he will come sleep beside my arms and there's also majority of times where he will come stay on top of my legs etc.
He's also very active, if I move my arms under the blanket he tries to play thinking something is moving and goes crazy.
He has a few spots around the house that's his like sofa etc, if I go there and I cuddle him there on his spot he seems to be okay most of the time and doesn't mind it. It's usually if I pick him up from where he is and I bring him to my bed then things go south sometimes lol
But, I wanna cuddle him lol and hold him in my arms
I've tried sprinkling catnip on my bed etc here and there and it works a little.
I feel like he's anxious or something and needs to be relaxed. Are there any products or anything that can relax him or something? Or what can I do differently to make him know it's okay. I know cats wanna be alone etc and want their own thing and it's hard to change their behaviour but I just wanna hold him when Im trying to fall asleep haha!
Hope to get some insight on this, thank you guys!
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