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So my new cat Mischief finally came home with me. Resident cat Amelia is not thrilled.
I live in an apartment so the introduction set up isn't ideal. I've got resident cat in my bedroom because that's where all her favorite spots (including her cat tree and litterbox) are. The bedroom isn't much smaller than the livingroom, which is where new cat is.
A sliding door separates them. I've got a window unit AC in the livingroom, and if I shut the doors it gets unbearably hot in the bedroom so I have to leave them cracked, which means they can see each other. There's been some hissing and growling from resident cat, but she's still eating, so I know she's doing okay if a bit unhappy. She hides sometimes, but also spends time in her usual perches and she lets me pet her.
Here's the problem: the sliding doors are hard to move quickly, and new cat really, really wants to go in the bedroom. She's slipped past me three times just today; the first two times I got her out before Amelia saw her, but the third time Amelia hissed and rushed her a bit (new cat backed down; they didn't actually fight or anything).
Am I totally ruining the intros? I expected some hostility at the start and from what I've read here, some hissing and growling is normal at first. But I haven't been able to separate them completely and I'm pretty sure that if new cat managed to slip around me so many times in just one day that it won't be the last time she does it.
I sprayed some feliway on the door that separates them (should have just bitten the financial bullet and gotten the diffuser). I place treats and food by the door; resident cat won't go for it if it's too close but she will eat them, and new cat hasn't seemed to figure out that I'm offering her food yet (she also hasn't eaten yet, but she ate right before I brought her home this afternoon so I'm not too worried about that yet).
Sorry for this wall of text; I'm just worried. Have I botched it, or are they going to be okay?
I live in an apartment so the introduction set up isn't ideal. I've got resident cat in my bedroom because that's where all her favorite spots (including her cat tree and litterbox) are. The bedroom isn't much smaller than the livingroom, which is where new cat is.
A sliding door separates them. I've got a window unit AC in the livingroom, and if I shut the doors it gets unbearably hot in the bedroom so I have to leave them cracked, which means they can see each other. There's been some hissing and growling from resident cat, but she's still eating, so I know she's doing okay if a bit unhappy. She hides sometimes, but also spends time in her usual perches and she lets me pet her.
Here's the problem: the sliding doors are hard to move quickly, and new cat really, really wants to go in the bedroom. She's slipped past me three times just today; the first two times I got her out before Amelia saw her, but the third time Amelia hissed and rushed her a bit (new cat backed down; they didn't actually fight or anything).
Am I totally ruining the intros? I expected some hostility at the start and from what I've read here, some hissing and growling is normal at first. But I haven't been able to separate them completely and I'm pretty sure that if new cat managed to slip around me so many times in just one day that it won't be the last time she does it.
I sprayed some feliway on the door that separates them (should have just bitten the financial bullet and gotten the diffuser). I place treats and food by the door; resident cat won't go for it if it's too close but she will eat them, and new cat hasn't seemed to figure out that I'm offering her food yet (she also hasn't eaten yet, but she ate right before I brought her home this afternoon so I'm not too worried about that yet).
Sorry for this wall of text; I'm just worried. Have I botched it, or are they going to be okay?