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Hi guys, I've been posting on another thread but wanted to start a new one just for this specific video.
We're 5 weeks into introducing what I now know is an 8-month old kitten/cat (the breeders told me she was 5 months old but her passport says she was born in July).
Intros are not catastrophic, in that there's been no fighting/lunging at the glass door during visual interactions, but Phoebe just seems absolutely miserable and has changed from being active during the day and sleeping with us at night, to sleeping all day and going out all night.
She was just with me in my bedroom and Ava (8 month old) started scratching and meowing at the door. Phoebe ran onto the windowsill while my bf removed Ava from the door, and this is Phoebe now:
I think she's really, really unhappy and I don't know if it should be like this 5 weeks in (2 and a bit weeks of visuals). Is she crying? Is she severely stressed?
And ultimately, is this the point at which we make the devastating choice to rehome Ava?
Thank you.
We're 5 weeks into introducing what I now know is an 8-month old kitten/cat (the breeders told me she was 5 months old but her passport says she was born in July).
Intros are not catastrophic, in that there's been no fighting/lunging at the glass door during visual interactions, but Phoebe just seems absolutely miserable and has changed from being active during the day and sleeping with us at night, to sleeping all day and going out all night.
She was just with me in my bedroom and Ava (8 month old) started scratching and meowing at the door. Phoebe ran onto the windowsill while my bf removed Ava from the door, and this is Phoebe now:
I think she's really, really unhappy and I don't know if it should be like this 5 weeks in (2 and a bit weeks of visuals). Is she crying? Is she severely stressed?
And ultimately, is this the point at which we make the devastating choice to rehome Ava?
Thank you.