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Hi Everyone
this may be long but I’m hoping to give full details.
I have a 2 1/2 year old neutered domestic shorthair called Layla. We got her at 12 weeks. Layla is quite a timid cat, she is indoor as she has a paw missing and is pretty skitterish, even around us. My daughter went to Uni last September and she appeared to change. Started to be sick, not eating, was very vocal when I got in from work, was leaving for work. started sleeping under our bed as opposed to her cat bed she slept in in my daughters room. Would hardly come down stairs. Health was all ok, so I thought maybe she needed company and this is were the story begins.
5 weeks ago I got a female kitten Marley who is now 13 weeks.
Marley was in the safe room for 2 weeks before we allowed them to meet. We done scent swapping, then moved to allowing Layla to visually see Marley through a gate and I felt I really hadn’t rushed introductions. Layla growled etc but it died down.
I now allow supervised time together and they are separated at night, with Marley in our room and Layla having free range of the house as her litter box and food is down stairs and always has been.
Marley at first would not leave Layla alone, jumping on her, just wanting to play fight, so before they see each other I have a good play session with Marley to tire her out.
I was getting really confident about them but now the issue is, Layla appears really aggressive during play. She is initiating the fighting more and they do both take turn chasing each other up and down the stairs and starting the play. There is never any sound from either of them.
Today however, Marley squeaked and when I looked over, Layla ears looked flat down and she was bunny kicking Marley and I seen fur on the bed. I made a loud clap to seperate and had a time out.
They both sleep on my bed together during the day and in the two beds I have in my room ( we have beds all over the house)they can be in the same room without the fighting, it’s just when it starts its starting to looks aggressive.
Do you think it’s getting real? Marley at times won’t give Layla peace and Layla looks now to be getting more aggressive. Marley always comes back for more every time,is that a good thing?They don’t groom each other either. Couple of nose bumps first thing in the morning but nothing that appears bonded as yet.
Marley is only 13 weeks so I don’t want her hurt but at the same time she won’t give Layla much respite.
Layla over the past two weeks has peed on my bed and my daughters bed which is totally out of character. They both have separate litter box and I have an extra one in the hall for them just incase.
Is this normal or should I take a step back with them?
sorry this is long
thanks
this may be long but I’m hoping to give full details.
I have a 2 1/2 year old neutered domestic shorthair called Layla. We got her at 12 weeks. Layla is quite a timid cat, she is indoor as she has a paw missing and is pretty skitterish, even around us. My daughter went to Uni last September and she appeared to change. Started to be sick, not eating, was very vocal when I got in from work, was leaving for work. started sleeping under our bed as opposed to her cat bed she slept in in my daughters room. Would hardly come down stairs. Health was all ok, so I thought maybe she needed company and this is were the story begins.
5 weeks ago I got a female kitten Marley who is now 13 weeks.
Marley was in the safe room for 2 weeks before we allowed them to meet. We done scent swapping, then moved to allowing Layla to visually see Marley through a gate and I felt I really hadn’t rushed introductions. Layla growled etc but it died down.
I now allow supervised time together and they are separated at night, with Marley in our room and Layla having free range of the house as her litter box and food is down stairs and always has been.
Marley at first would not leave Layla alone, jumping on her, just wanting to play fight, so before they see each other I have a good play session with Marley to tire her out.
I was getting really confident about them but now the issue is, Layla appears really aggressive during play. She is initiating the fighting more and they do both take turn chasing each other up and down the stairs and starting the play. There is never any sound from either of them.
Today however, Marley squeaked and when I looked over, Layla ears looked flat down and she was bunny kicking Marley and I seen fur on the bed. I made a loud clap to seperate and had a time out.
They both sleep on my bed together during the day and in the two beds I have in my room ( we have beds all over the house)they can be in the same room without the fighting, it’s just when it starts its starting to looks aggressive.
Do you think it’s getting real? Marley at times won’t give Layla peace and Layla looks now to be getting more aggressive. Marley always comes back for more every time,is that a good thing?They don’t groom each other either. Couple of nose bumps first thing in the morning but nothing that appears bonded as yet.
Marley is only 13 weeks so I don’t want her hurt but at the same time she won’t give Layla much respite.
Layla over the past two weeks has peed on my bed and my daughters bed which is totally out of character. They both have separate litter box and I have an extra one in the hall for them just incase.
Is this normal or should I take a step back with them?
sorry this is long
thanks