This is a huge shock to us all.
She has had kidney failure for maybe 18 years, she went to dialysis 3x a week. Suddenly this week, she was sick. Saturday night she was acting weird so i asked her if she wanted me to call an ambulance. She said no, but i should not have listened to her. A bit later my bfs cousin (daughter of the aunt) asked me to talk to the 911 dispatcher, because she could not. The ambulance came shortly after. She was having a heart attack
While she was in the hospital, they were talking of amputating her leg. Apparently, she had other problems. Poor circulation in her legs, and blood clot near her heart, which is REALLY bad. Then they were saying her liver was failing. AND that if they put her under, to put a catheter in her heart, that they would not be able to bring her out of anasthesia. They werent even going to put her under to amputate her leg. They were going to give her a local anasthetic for that.
Her and her 18 year old daughter live with us. Her daughter had just gotten back from the hospital when the phone call came in that her mom had passed. The daughter has mental problems, her mental age is probably 12, so while she is 18, she is handling this like a 12 year old would. Of course, she is staying here with us, as she could never live on her own. My bf is so upset, he didnt come up to bed until 6 am. And, for the first time in the 6 years i have been with him, he was crying...
Can i ask for major TCS vibes for my boy friend and his family? They really need them in this sad time for their family. I have been trying to help them as much as possible, but, i am not really family, and there is only so much i can do
She has had kidney failure for maybe 18 years, she went to dialysis 3x a week. Suddenly this week, she was sick. Saturday night she was acting weird so i asked her if she wanted me to call an ambulance. She said no, but i should not have listened to her. A bit later my bfs cousin (daughter of the aunt) asked me to talk to the 911 dispatcher, because she could not. The ambulance came shortly after. She was having a heart attack
While she was in the hospital, they were talking of amputating her leg. Apparently, she had other problems. Poor circulation in her legs, and blood clot near her heart, which is REALLY bad. Then they were saying her liver was failing. AND that if they put her under, to put a catheter in her heart, that they would not be able to bring her out of anasthesia. They werent even going to put her under to amputate her leg. They were going to give her a local anasthetic for that.
Her and her 18 year old daughter live with us. Her daughter had just gotten back from the hospital when the phone call came in that her mom had passed. The daughter has mental problems, her mental age is probably 12, so while she is 18, she is handling this like a 12 year old would. Of course, she is staying here with us, as she could never live on her own. My bf is so upset, he didnt come up to bed until 6 am. And, for the first time in the 6 years i have been with him, he was crying...
Can i ask for major TCS vibes for my boy friend and his family? They really need them in this sad time for their family. I have been trying to help them as much as possible, but, i am not really family, and there is only so much i can do