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I have never posted a thread here so I'm sorry if this is in the wrong area. I'm looking to get some help for my cat Grim.
Grim is 3 years old now, I've had him since he was a kitten, he was put in a pet store from a shelter in hopes he would be adopted. He is a Chantilly and I think he was maybe 4 months when I got him, maybe less but he seemed large for a kitten. He is still intact and his issue is that ever since I adopted him, he has been completely terrified of just about everything.
If guests come over to the house, they don't see him and barely realize he exists after 3 years. He will spend most of the day hiding either in the very back of his cat carrier that is left out or in a cupboard in my tv cabinet. He climbs in through a hole in the back and stays inside with the doors shut. I don't force him to socialize because he will panic and become terrified near people. I had tried in the past and he wasn't able to handle it.
When left alone with me, Grim is very very affectionate but extremely awkward. I have a persian who is spayed and he always tries to rub his head into hers but she leaves when he does because he's a very strong cat. When he wants to be affectionate with me, he headbutts me and holds himself against my body, mainly standing and just pushes into me. I've never had a cat act like this, when he is pushing in it's almost painful when he puts his weight in and if you try to move him he is very heavy and will just immediately run back in almost a panic. He only does this with me. He basically needs to be sitting near my face or neck at all times to remain calm.
If I move or need to get up, he begins panicking again and runs and hides. He never scratches and he doesn't spray on anything or mark his territory even with another cat in the house.
I don't think this behaviour is normal for the Chantilly breed, or cats in general having had them my whole life. I'm just wondering if there's anything I can do for him, or if he is okay being awkward like this. I feel bad when he's so terrified all the time and I can't do anything to make him feel more comfortable when other people are there.
Sorry for the very long thread. I wanted to be as detailed as possible. Also this is an image of Grim
Grim is 3 years old now, I've had him since he was a kitten, he was put in a pet store from a shelter in hopes he would be adopted. He is a Chantilly and I think he was maybe 4 months when I got him, maybe less but he seemed large for a kitten. He is still intact and his issue is that ever since I adopted him, he has been completely terrified of just about everything.
If guests come over to the house, they don't see him and barely realize he exists after 3 years. He will spend most of the day hiding either in the very back of his cat carrier that is left out or in a cupboard in my tv cabinet. He climbs in through a hole in the back and stays inside with the doors shut. I don't force him to socialize because he will panic and become terrified near people. I had tried in the past and he wasn't able to handle it.
When left alone with me, Grim is very very affectionate but extremely awkward. I have a persian who is spayed and he always tries to rub his head into hers but she leaves when he does because he's a very strong cat. When he wants to be affectionate with me, he headbutts me and holds himself against my body, mainly standing and just pushes into me. I've never had a cat act like this, when he is pushing in it's almost painful when he puts his weight in and if you try to move him he is very heavy and will just immediately run back in almost a panic. He only does this with me. He basically needs to be sitting near my face or neck at all times to remain calm.
If I move or need to get up, he begins panicking again and runs and hides. He never scratches and he doesn't spray on anything or mark his territory even with another cat in the house.
I don't think this behaviour is normal for the Chantilly breed, or cats in general having had them my whole life. I'm just wondering if there's anything I can do for him, or if he is okay being awkward like this. I feel bad when he's so terrified all the time and I can't do anything to make him feel more comfortable when other people are there.
Sorry for the very long thread. I wanted to be as detailed as possible. Also this is an image of Grim