I wanted to add that when I was going through the custody battle with my ex husband, my attorney advised me to have the teachers note the general mood of my son at school the first 2 days days after visitation, whether he was unruly, docile, happy, sad, angry, etc. so that it would be noted by an outside source how the visits were affecting him. I hope you are documenting all of this because it will come in handy-outside sources are best because they are for neither side of the conflict (neighbors, teachers, etc that have seen hands on what this guy is up to). They may also take your neice and nephew's testimony under advisement in court should they say they do not want to visit with their father anymore since they are older. I used to slip a tape recorder in my purse and would catch all of my ex's fits.
If it were me, I wouldn't let him see the kids anymore. Contempt or no contempt.
If it were me, I wouldn't let him see the kids anymore. Contempt or no contempt.