My cat, Alli, is having kittens as I'm sure many of you know by now. I think I actually saw the father. I'm not sure if the cat I saw is a tom or queen, but I'm pretty sure it's a tom, because I saw him around when Alli was in season. I think he's wild, and I'd like to try to capture him and check for a collar, maybe take him to the vet to see if he's microchipped. When I tried to approach him, he ran. How do I let him know I'm not going to hurt him and what's the best way to trap him without spending a lot of money?