Hello everyone, I am new to this forum and am hopeful for some knowledgeable advice. I have 3 separate, established TNR feral colonies that I have cared for for the past four years. With in the past few weeks, a new, male (fortunately also TNR-just not by me) has shown up at one of feeding stations and is extremely aggressive toward the others. The only way I can ensure everyone eats is to try to feed him (Meanie) separately while I stand guard, keeping him from attacking the others. I cannot always do this however, and I am finding that my established kitties (it’s a small colony of only 3) seem to simply not eat if I don’t stand guard the entire time. Also, when I do stay, even after they have all eaten , I have watched him still chase the others away and can hear the cat fighting in the distance. It just makes me sick! Is this something I should just get over and allow them to work out ? Thanks in advance for any suggestions.