Our out of state relatives passed a mean cold to us on Christmas. Everyone got it and now the cold has spread to infect a third state! I got sick right before New Years and am still sick sick. I haven't gotten to the messy stage of the cold where it starts to break up and you need boxes and boxes of tissues. I'm still in the miserably sick part. Right now I'm not leaving the house and only doing the minimal (feeding cats, doing litter boxes once a day instead of twice etc) because I'm trying to rest as I'm prone to ear problems and vertigo after I get colds.
My good good friends father died two days ago. I feel like I must go to the memorial service. I only met her father once but I'd like to be there for her and to see her other family members again as well.
But I'm anxious because I'm definitely still in that contagious stage. I don't want to get anyone sick- there will be a lot of elderly there and I'm also worried that my coughing will disrupt the service. But I really want to go.
What is worse not going or going and getting people sick? How much physical contact happens in the line? Do I need to shake people's hands? Is it normal not to? My instinct would to be to hug my friend. Should I avoid that so to not get her sick? The last thing she needs now is to get sick while she's doing all the planning and helping her mother acclimate to a new way of life.
My good good friends father died two days ago. I feel like I must go to the memorial service. I only met her father once but I'd like to be there for her and to see her other family members again as well.
But I'm anxious because I'm definitely still in that contagious stage. I don't want to get anyone sick- there will be a lot of elderly there and I'm also worried that my coughing will disrupt the service. But I really want to go.
What is worse not going or going and getting people sick? How much physical contact happens in the line? Do I need to shake people's hands? Is it normal not to? My instinct would to be to hug my friend. Should I avoid that so to not get her sick? The last thing she needs now is to get sick while she's doing all the planning and helping her mother acclimate to a new way of life.