Thank you so much, Mamanyt1953 -- and you're so right. So often, too, people don't manifest their feelings and it's very difficult if not impossible to know they feel anything at all. I guess I'm more attuned to cats' feelings since I've lived all my life with cats. People have accused me of not having feelings but I think I'm Asperger's to some extent. Just goes to show that judging on the outside isn't always accurate.Thank you, tarasgirl06 . It was a rough time, although they were all quite old, ranging in age from just over 90 to 105 (and HE was the one we didn't expect!). Just so many so quickly. I am so sorry you went through that with your parents. It happens so often where there is such a deep bond. And it seems to happen with our beloved animals like that, too. If ever anyone questions whether or not cats and dogs feel love, they should have to watch them grieve as we do.