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Our kitten is 4 months old. He eats solid food...he's a PIG...and seems to be in otherwise fiercely robust health.
Hubby has a very bad temper. If I suggest deviating from the doc's instructions, he cops an attitude and throws up his hands and threatens to withdraw all help - which I need when it comes to the heavy lifting, etc, involved with sterilizing the house - from this venture. Yet HE IS THE ONE WHO ADOPTED SONNY BEHIND MY BACK!
Oh and he is extremely reluctant to go by what some website says. He believes it's easy for someone to just lie on a website. No one knows who is really on the other end of that internet connection. Someone can claim to be a doctor when they really are not a doctor. And not only that, even if they are a doctor, they haven't actually physically SEEN Sonny and his ringworm lesions. This doctor has seen Sonny and knows his individual case.
Shouting has gone on, and right now I'm not even speaking to my husband. So I don't want to ask him to help me spot treat the kitten. That's how bad and stressful this has become. It's going to drive me to drink and I am a diabetic.
Part of what I find so damn frustrating is when I see people say "I got my cat over ringworm in 2 weeks". Then what's taking so long in my cat?!
I feel like I need to offer ten thousand apologies but I really have nowhere else to go, to vent, I have no help, no emotional support, it's killing me to hear him cry in the bathroom all the time, I can't stand the sight of the lesions and he must be in misery, I want this over with so I know my entire home is safe from ringworm, I want my other cat safe from it too....sometimes even when I'm at work all I want to do is cry all day long. I can't deal with this for another three and a half months or more. I just can't. I don't have the stamina. I want to be a lot more aggressive with treatment but I don't get much help from my husband.
I'm at my wits end.
The ONLY thing I think that will get my husband to help me be more aggressive with treatment is if HE came down with it. He said he had it when he was a kid and it was easy to clear up.
But maybe if he had a tougher case, where he was infected and reinfected and reinfected over and over, THEN he'll get a fire lit under his butt and he'll move more on treating this cat.
Hubby has a very bad temper. If I suggest deviating from the doc's instructions, he cops an attitude and throws up his hands and threatens to withdraw all help - which I need when it comes to the heavy lifting, etc, involved with sterilizing the house - from this venture. Yet HE IS THE ONE WHO ADOPTED SONNY BEHIND MY BACK!
Oh and he is extremely reluctant to go by what some website says. He believes it's easy for someone to just lie on a website. No one knows who is really on the other end of that internet connection. Someone can claim to be a doctor when they really are not a doctor. And not only that, even if they are a doctor, they haven't actually physically SEEN Sonny and his ringworm lesions. This doctor has seen Sonny and knows his individual case.
Shouting has gone on, and right now I'm not even speaking to my husband. So I don't want to ask him to help me spot treat the kitten. That's how bad and stressful this has become. It's going to drive me to drink and I am a diabetic.
Part of what I find so damn frustrating is when I see people say "I got my cat over ringworm in 2 weeks". Then what's taking so long in my cat?!
I feel like I need to offer ten thousand apologies but I really have nowhere else to go, to vent, I have no help, no emotional support, it's killing me to hear him cry in the bathroom all the time, I can't stand the sight of the lesions and he must be in misery, I want this over with so I know my entire home is safe from ringworm, I want my other cat safe from it too....sometimes even when I'm at work all I want to do is cry all day long. I can't deal with this for another three and a half months or more. I just can't. I don't have the stamina. I want to be a lot more aggressive with treatment but I don't get much help from my husband.
I'm at my wits end.
The ONLY thing I think that will get my husband to help me be more aggressive with treatment is if HE came down with it. He said he had it when he was a kid and it was easy to clear up.
But maybe if he had a tougher case, where he was infected and reinfected and reinfected over and over, THEN he'll get a fire lit under his butt and he'll move more on treating this cat.
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