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When I say telling him off, it's merely a 'bootsie stop' line of verbal, then grabbing the laser pen and putting his mind elsewhere, or stroking him and putting his mind elsewhere. I realize that is how to communicate, as Chloe was that way at the beginning. She is doing nothing to him at this point, she is looking at him, lying on the sofa, no confrontation on her part, it's just like Bootsie has got it in his mind now, as he's done it for sooooooo long since she turned up. Like i put in my original text/message, it's a gentle tone of voice, and only verbally. He really doesn't need to do it, she's not being threatening in anyway, how we see it (from the walk pasts and lack of hissing on her part) that he's already established alpha, but he's trying to 'overpower' which is what Chloe was doing at the beginning. It's getting less and less, but we are reminding him, he's got his position back and it's time to try to get along more.I just want to say STOOOOOOOPPPP "telling him off" for hissing. That is how cats communicate and establish boundaries and everything. Why would you punish this??? .